SS Miserable little bastard. Talks of building a “death machine” to kill people when he grows up
SS13 has always been a spoiled coddled sheltered brat by both parents. 2020 has been a tough year between Covid, people fighting about politics and racism all over the news/Facebook etc. So I get this may have some kids uneasy. Now add the fact DH is very vocal about Voicing his oppion on these issues to SS13. I have a STONG feeling SS13 shares different views on the Matters. I say this because whenever DH try's to talk to SS13 about these issues SS13 tells DH he does not want to hear it or acts Uncomfortable.
Around the same time(6 months ago?) SS13 started saying all people are evil and he wished everyone was dead. SS13 said he hates everyone and does not want to go out because people are outside. He said his goal when he grows up is to build a death Machine to kill everyone because people evil. I asked him why he thinks everyone is evil and SS13 said because people have "evil thoughts". I thought this was weird I was expecting SS13 to say because people do bad things or something.
So thoughts? Is DH to Blame for trying to force His Opinions on SS when SS may not feel the same way as DH? Is SS just being a little ass trying to get a reaction from me?
Sounds like one unhappy boy
I'm not sure of the answer to your question but SS13 sounds like a very angry, unhappy person.
So has anyone gotten this kid
So has anyone gotten this kid some therapy yet?
Yes this kid in nuts
He needs major therapy. Like real professional therapy. Not the school, or free type
Child Psychologist
Child Psychologist
asap
Does he talk like this at his Moms,,,or is it just at your home?
Therapy.. this kid has a
Therapy.. this kid has a problem.. he is telling you that he has a problem. His family needs to help him.
A Dahmer baby!
smh
Fortuneately he is only 13. Odds are... it is just a phase. The kid may turn out just fine.
Hopefully.
Much more to the story.
There is always so much more to the story than "police are killing unarmed people". These supposedly unarmed people are far more often than not violent criminals with an extensive history of criminal behavior, they far more often than not fight with the police while resisting arrest, and were the focus of a 911 call from truly innocent observers which is what got the police involved in the first place. Their choices initiated their interface with LE and SOE that resulted in their demise.
The confusion perpetrated by self proclaimed good people who are rioting, destroying public and private property, fire bombing the police, etc, etc, etc... is simplified by focusing on the behaviors. Behaviors are what are bad or good. People are what their behaviors are. Those who behave well and comply with the law are comparatively "good". Those who violate the law and perpetrate crime are... "bad" or at least "not as good".
Truly peaceful protest as provided for under the constitution as "peaceable assembly" is good. Disruptive protest, rioting, looting, and vandalism of public and private property is obviously .... bad.
It does not take much to peel a very thin layer to find a significant amount of the rest of the story that puts these events in a much clearer light than just the police killing unarmed people or good people are protesting.
People who fight with the police, resist arrest, and who have a history of violent crime are the root/proximate cause of their own demise IMHO, armed or not.
Focus on the behavior. The why... really does not matter. Particularly when the naive why is so easily manipulated by avoiding the complete facts of the situation.
Right and wrong, legal Vs illegal, are entirely defined by action/behavior. Thoughts, ideas, etc.. certainly can be right and/or wrong but do not cross line into crime unless they are acted upon.
IMHO of course.
Keep it simple.
Talk about having evil
Talk about having evil thoughts... the irony. I would let him know that the thoughts he is having are evil. Agree that he needs a lot of therapy.
At 13 - he is no longer a “ little boy”!
Sorry - these issues make the short hairs on my neck prickle... Obviously this kid needs intensive treatment/therapy but I also believe the authorities should be alerted as well. It is beyond tragic to loose a life when mentally ill people decide to shoot at innocent crowds - and even more infuriating when that criminal slipped thru the "system" and could have been stopped. Your pussy DH is paralyzed with guilt, denial, embarrassment - it then becomes YOUR duty to others to report this behavior to Doctor, Police, Therapist. Good Luck & God Speed!