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Mentalgirl48's picture

I refused to watch boys while my BF is working out of town
Bottom line is I'm not the mother so she needs to step up. She insists on keeping to HER schedule (nothing on file with the courts) of Wednesday through Sunday night. She won't budge. Hes off tomorrow and is home ALL day through Tuesday morning. . I proposed that he picks up the boys right from school and get some time with them and take them to the bus in the Morning. I refuse to do her part on the days she is demanding. So he has been driving my car home on those nights 160 miles to spend two hours with the boys here each night as she insists on dropping them off regardless.
I'm curious to see if she will let him have them tomorrow night and Tuesday instead..
Amazing that I am the only one that came up with this as he was again ready to put all the additional mileage on my car so the x can keep her schedule... Let's see if what happens.

MamaFox's picture

160 miles on YOUR car?

Fuck that shit. He needs to man up. It's Your car and those are HIS kids and his ex, he needs to stand up to her and say he will only go by what is stated by the CO. Simple as that.

Mentalgirl48's picture

It changes based on what she wants. Like I said k custody or visitation schedule on file at all.
Courts don't even know he has boys 50% and he pays child support.. We alternate 2 nights a week then 5 nights.. Every week.. Since there is no court issued custody she changes it when she wants to..

hereiam's picture

This situation just gets more ridiculous. Now he's putting all those miles on YOUR car?

Why are you allowing this?

Stop it.