A new STalker in the making....
So last night my DH tells me about a very good friend of our's latest drama. (Names have been changed to protect the idiots)
So Mark and Lisa have been having a very rocky, on-again off-again relationship for years. For some reason Mark does not seem to have any self-esteem, any brains or any balls because he has pretty much all out caught Lisa cheating on him, actually lived with Lisa, her EX husband, and their son for a period of time (yes you read this right!), and has put up with Lisa treating him like crap for years.
Mark eventually moves back home to Tennessee and Lisa stays in LA but he still "loves" her and keeps in contact with her (while she's living with her EX husband) and she comes for a week long visit during the spring of 2009. During that week, she manages to pull off the ultimate trap that psycho girls dream of.. she gets pregnant. So in January Mark goes out to LA for birth of his son and they spend the next few months taking turns traveling back and forth from LA-Tennessee to see each other. This summer Lisa, her son (with her ex) and Mark's son moved to Tennessee to live with Mark. That lasted until last week...
Apparently Mark and Lisa got into a huge fight (which of course is one of a bazillion) and Lisa packed up her crap and took her son and Mark's son and moved to Florida to live with a friend. But wait! Not before telling Mark that she is guess what?? Pregnant again!
I love our friend Mark, but what is God's name makes men so stupid?? What makes any person (be it man or woman) so stupid that they will be treated like crap for year after year but still think they are "in love"? After my DH told me all of this I said "Well, Mark pretty much just ruined his chances of ever finding a nice girl and settling down, because no decent woman is going to put up with the Baby Mama drama that psycho Lisa is going to dish out and if he does manage to find someone I'm positive she will be a future member of Step Talk. 
That makes me wonder... is
:jawdrop:
That makes me wonder... is "Mark's son" really Mark's?
We all wondered the same
We all wondered the same thing when she became pregnant with #1... I know Mark's parents urged him to have a paternity test done, but I'm not exactly sure if he ever did... just stupid all around dumb!
My thoughts exactly!
My thoughts exactly!
Your DH is right! That bitch
Your DH is right! That bitch has ruined Mark for a nice girl. Now all he can offer is tainted step parent hood to a girl and wacko BM to go with it! He'll probably end up with some new controller and the BM and the GF or DW can go rounds!
Can you say PATERNITY
Can you say PATERNITY TEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He needs to make absolutely sure that these are his kids. If not, he needs to have nothing to do with "Lisa" or her spawn and he needs to get a CO indicating that he is not their father and has ZERO obligation to "Lisa" or the children. Sad as that may be for the children.
If one or more of them are his, he needs to do whatever it takes to get HIS kid(s) away from their skanky mother. At least he should "invite" her back to reconcile and as soon as she crosses in to his state file for a CO preventing her from taking his kid(s) out of state.
Based on her continuous return to her XH my guess would be that there is a pretty good chance that all of children are the XH’s and that "Lisa" and her XH are milking "Mark" as the idiot he obviously is.
I am not trying to be an asshole in my opinion on this but these people deserve what they get unless they can figure out how to keep their peckers in their pants or labia in their leotards.
Stupid people piss me off and "Mark" and "Lisa" definitely qualify.
IMHO of course.
Best regards,
"labia in their
"labia in their leotards."
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++
LMAO!
I'm with Rags.... Have
I'm with Rags.... Have PATERNITY TESTS DONE NOW!!!
There's no sense in him being drug through a lot of drama if these children aren't his.
It may seem heartless, but it will be best for "Mark" and the children. If they are his, he needs to get them away from BM.