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" A new move, a fresh start, and one very pissed off, jealous BM to come..."

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Submitted by MarriedwithChild on Sun, 02/07/2010 - 9:51am

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I can't wait to move to our new home!!! It will be so much better for all of us!

Here is the problem, we are literally having to keep this a secret (yeah) just so bm does not declare war again just because she will be jealous?!

Great place for kids...not that bm will like that at all.( She would have ss5 "passed" for life and have my dh and I talked about like crap. (we do our all.)

She will be livid and jealous...Why you may ask? Because it is far better than her roost, the one she stole in the divorce.

Sad when you have to hide special events just to avoid a complete meltdown.

She will live and get over it...and no, she doesn't get the code to the front gate...muahhahaha

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Submitted by soverysad on Sun, 02/07/2010 - 10:20am

I am so happy for you!!! Let her meltdown. She's an ass.

"God is great, beer is good, and people are crazy" and you can't change crazy!!

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Submitted by MarriedwithChild on Sun, 02/07/2010 - 10:29am

Yes...she can have her meltdown outside the alarmed and locked front gate...;-)

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Submitted by StepChicka on Sun, 02/07/2010 - 10:29am

That's good news MWC. Let us know how things goes. How much BM flips...lol I'm always up for entertainment on your BM's behalf. So selfish of me I know.

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Submitted by Rags on Sun, 02/07/2010 - 10:33am

I like the controlled access gate option. That pretty much sets both a physical and psychological barrier that separates her from your family. Family can pass the gate but she can't. This may also be a good thing for the Skids. They will have a mental switch that is very clear. When at Dad's, Mom's drama is kept out.

Any thoughts from our mental health professional Stalker buddies?

Best regards,

Success is rarely final. Failure is rarely fatal. It is character, courage and consistency of effort that count. Vince Lombardi (with some minor Rags modifications) To each according to their performance, screw Karl Marx. (Rags)

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Submitted by MarriedwithChild on Sun, 02/07/2010 - 10:33am

I still have the "feeling" that she is up to no good. After the yelling fiasco at her house in front of ss5, screaming at my dh...he has since made her meet for drop-offs in a public parking lot.

Odd for her, not one peep, phone call, even an email...She hasn't even been on her FB since the ordeal? All she was yelling about was MORE monies...I think she is up to something (dh can lose his guard faster than me.) So I am on the "look out..."

From her history, everytime she went silent, some wrath followed in...

How's the weather and the "crew?"

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Submitted by soverysad on Sun, 02/07/2010 - 10:46am

Quiet usually mean they're up to something. Its been too quiet on our end too. We've had Creature since Tuesday night (she did see her wed, thurs and fri mornings for a short time) and she has not made one phone call. Odd.

"God is great, beer is good, and people are crazy" and you can't change crazy!!

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Submitted by MarriedwithChild on Sun, 02/07/2010 - 10:55am

I spoke too soon. The toilet' just overflowed all over the main hallway all over carpet, etc. thanks to a whole roll of toilet paper being flushed at one time in the 2nd bath thanks to ss5 and the lack of proper toilet training...

*gag*

Of course dh had to work today also...

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Submitted by Rags on Sun, 02/07/2010 - 11:21am

MWC,

He is 5yo. The perfect size to grab him by the ankles and mop up his mess with his hair. A 5yo's head is also the perfect size to use as a toilet brush. Soooo ....... grab those ankles and get to moppin. Don't forget to pull his nose out of the toilet bowl every once in a while to let him breath. Wink

Just kidding of course.

Best regards,

Success is rarely final. Failure is rarely fatal. It is character, courage and consistency of effort that count. Vince Lombardi (with some minor Rags modifications) To each according to their performance, screw Karl Marx. (Rags)

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Submitted by Rags on Sun, 02/07/2010 - 11:25am

As for the weather? We got ~30inches. Fortunately I got a snow blower for Christmas. It is a 17yo snow blower and it is very very slow but it did get the job done. BTW, the 17yo SS that flunked out of boarding school qualifies as a snow blower. His Mom and I enjoyed watching him shovel snow through the window next to the nice warm fire place.

There is justice in the world. If only briefly.

Best regards,

Success is rarely final. Failure is rarely fatal. It is character, courage and consistency of effort that count. Vince Lombardi (with some minor Rags modifications) To each according to their performance, screw Karl Marx. (Rags)

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Submitted by MarriedwithChild on Sun, 02/07/2010 - 11:37am

Why O' why can't parents raise their kids to have "basic" life skills?
I'm a bio-mom...and now a sm. Huge difference ( yes, bragging) in between dh's son and my own. I probably seem harsh but yes, I do think that is a most excellent agenda for your ss17. That will make boarding school seem like Eutopia...

My bs18 (who was trying to nap before work today) was more than willing to help me clean up the lil angels mess. I'll actually be glad when we go to the week on, week off scenario again so that I can teach ss5 "basic" life skills. I understand that his dad works 40-60 hrs. a week ( got to pay the cow her monthly welfare) so he has little time to teach the poor kid how to read, bathe, wipe his butt, and yes...not use an entire roll of toilet paper.

It's not ss5's fault that his mom treats him no more than a year old. (literally)

The lil guy actually wants to learn but must revert when he returns to the roosting estate...

And to think, not one damn "thank you" even from his mom...? (I'd be thrilled)

My son at age 5 was already reading, dressing, bathing, fixing small foods, building legos, you get the picture. I always thought we were supposed to raise them to fly on their own one day?

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Submitted by soverysad on Sun, 02/07/2010 - 11:46am

We have the same issue. Wingnut wants Creature to be an infant because the only thing she knows about "parenting" is zipping coats, tying shoes, and wiping ass. Everything else is foreign so she needs to keep Creature as a baby so she can fool herself into thinking she is doing her job. And Creature is more than happy to oblige. She LOVES to be babied. She often says it aloud "I wish I were still a little baby so you would have to do things for me". ME "well, you're not and the older you get the more I will expect you to do, so get used to it". Sulk, sulk, sulk.

"God is great, beer is good, and people are crazy" and you can't change crazy!!

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Submitted by MarriedwithChild on Sun, 02/07/2010 - 11:44am

Although now pondering, my son's father was a literal Rocket Scientist. (honest)

He went to Leningrad Polytechnic ( USSR) and worked for NASA.

I am taliking about my "late" husband, fyi. I suppose certain things to make a big difference.

I do not think that ss5's mom could even hook-up the most basic of PC Systems, much less devise security software. ( we have zero in common.)

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Submitted by Angel72 on Sun, 02/07/2010 - 12:43pm

We kept our new purchase from bm and the kids until the last moment...and i was pakcing up boxes and stuffing them into the closet. I had already purchased the home early summer and the kids only found out 2 weeks befor the moving date. Of course sd wanted mommy to come and inspect it. I told her straight out, no your mohter is not welcomed in my home. She told you years ago she didn't like me. And for no good reason i may add. I will not welcome anyone in my home like that , especially to inspect it?! Your mother is not special, you dont live here. Your dad should be the one inspecting your home! Considering its state now.
She never brought it up again and bm has never offered to drive themover..but i'm sure she will ask inthe futur...which i will still refuse.
I'ld honestly would have tried to work with this her but her character as a human being is awful. All of her friends have now dropped her and want nothing to do with her. Her own sister and hubby roll their eyes...on one hand i feel sorry for her but on the other hand i know she is at fault for her behaviour..hence her state of being.
ewwww for the toilet!!!! I hate having to clean up that type of mess...my son when he was little flushed one of his cars down the toilet...along with someof my makeup..lol....well the landlady wasnt' too happy and neither was i!

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Submitted by Rags on Mon, 02/08/2010 - 10:25am

The sad part of our situation when it comes to new home and car purchases is not the SpermClan, it is my MIL with the issues. She has severe issues of jelousey as far as those types of things where my wife is concerned. My IL's have had multiple bankruptcies, foreclosures, etc.... They rarely will visit us because of the post visit drama my MIL puts my FIL through.

Congrats on your new home. It is YOUR new home and the X's have no business in your home unless you invite them in.

Why anyone would want to do that is beyond me.

Best regards,

Success is rarely final. Failure is rarely fatal. It is character, courage and consistency of effort that count. Vince Lombardi (with some minor Rags modifications) To each according to their performance, screw Karl Marx. (Rags)