Just need to vent some. My ex-husband has been telling my daughter he's moving out of state about 10 hours away when she's 18, my daughter is 10 right now. Then about a month ago he said maybe in the spring of 2011. Nothing definite he say's. Step-mom took her to the mall yesterday and dropped the bomb that they are moving in April for sure. Now we've been divorced now for 8 year's and he has never seen her that often even though he live's 10 minute's away. His excuse has alway's been how much he worked, well he had to retire early (he was a police officer), he got into an accident at work and had to do a medical retirement. Well you would think with no job he would see her. Wrong... He has two other children from a previous marriage. My daughter hardly know's them. None of his family talk's to my daughter even though they have a close knit bond with his other two and also his step-daughter with his current wife. His Mom has called one time in 8 year's on her birthday. It's like she doesn't exist to them. She love's her Dad so much and try's really hard to please him and to talk to her sister's but they just don't bother with her. His oldest is in college they had a sibling day and his mom took his sister's kids as well as my daughters other sister and his ex wifes son with HER current husband and posted the pic's online of all the kid's rock climbing, roller skating, etc... and she labled the photo album my favorite grandkid's. My daughter saw this and was devastated. Im so angry and sad for my daughter, I know she's hurting but he just brush's it aside basically telling her to suck it up.Actually telling her she crossed the line when she started to tell him how she feel's. It make's me sick. Im mad at step-mom, feel it wasn't her place to say a word to my daughter it should of been her Dad. Im also mad that he helped raise her daughter who is now 20. This woman got what she wanted her daughter is grown. Now there done?? What????? Not to mention he had an affair on me with this woman, married two week's after my divorce was final. I got over it, it did take a while but I didnt hate anymore. Now it's coming back, Im just so freaken angry at both of them for being so cruel and selfish!!!