just need to rant
we have ss10 full time.
we also have two babies together.
i just need to rant...i am exhausted.
i have taken on the mom role for my ss. his bm not involved, she visits once a week sometimes once every two weeks. this one time my dh asked bm to make linch for ss amd i even had to do it on her time. she is that lkind of bm. my ss has told me before that she hates me and we will never be friends lol anyways, i have so much on my plate right now...and i just feel angru tjat his bm doesnt step up or show any appreciation. She just spends money on herself and goes to fancy donners...i love being a mom dont get me wrong but sometimes i think to myself, it must be nice to only think about yourself and i just feel taken advantage of. dh thinks his son is the greatest lid ever and easy to take care of
my ss isnt the worst but
my ss isnt the worst but making sure his needs are met and just playing with him is still work... sometimes he can be sarcastic and have an attitude...and
oh she doesnt even pay child
oh she doesnt even pay child support.
if i dont do it then nobody will and this child will be neglected
I feel trapped sometimes... I
I feel trapped sometimes...
I love my dh and I want to help raise him, I cant find it in me to disengsge
"she visits once a week
"she visits once a week sometimes once every two weeks" :? And you are making lunch on BM's time? :?
BM does not visit YOUR home. That DH seems to think this is acceptable is disturbing IMHO.
I have no issue with you caring for the kid but hosting BM for visitations..... WTF is that all about? :?
she doesnt stay at our place
she doesnt stay at our place she stays at my inlaws which is two inutes away...wweird arrangemwnt i know.
she lives one hour away from
she lives one hour away from us so she spends the night at my inlaws with ss