Okay, so I'm not sure how many of you sleep in the pajamas that god gave you but I can tell you right now if you haven't you should try it. I don't do it all the time but last night was one of those nights where I did. 3 am rolls around and FSS(5) wakes up with a nightmare and comes into our bedroom and FDH lets him climb into bed with us. Thankfully he was on FDH's side with FDH inbeween the two of us. I just laid there until I thought he was asleep and then got up and went to the bathroom to get my rob.

As I walk back into the bedroom FDH makes a comment about how he covered FSS's eyes when I got up. Let's just say that I was pissed at this point. So I walked over to the bed and FDH asked me where I was going and I told him that I was going out to smoke and grabbed a pillow off of the bed. FDH told me not to sleep out in the living room so I just walked away. When I returned from my 3 am smoke FSS was not in bed. FDH made a comment to me about FSS having a nightmare and that's why he let him into our bed. My response, "I really find it innapropriate that you would let your 5 year old son climb in bed with you when I'm not wearing any clothes." He responded with, "well you're never wearing any clothes."

Does this make since to anyone? He made another comment about how he just won't lay there when his son has had a bad dream and not comfort him which I reminded him of the time my BD had a nighmare and I actually got up adn went into her room and comforted her until she could fall back asleep.

So apprently he told FSS after I walked out of the room that he would sleep in his bed with him that night which I didn't know about until FSS starts doing his fake crying. Let me tell you that his fake crying is the most annoying thing on the planet. So this goes on for a couple of minutes and FDH does nothing. Finally I made a comment to him about the fact that he was doing his fake cry yet again. So FDH yells several times for him to stop which he finally did after the third time. Oh and I forgot to mention that FDH was also sleeping in the buff when FSS climber into bed next to him.

Now I can understand comforting a child when they have a nightmare but FDH and I agreed along time ago that the kids would not be sleeping with us anymore. FSS would climb into bed with him all the time and FDH would just ignore me and cuddle with him all the time.

FDH and I have already talked about this and he has apologized for it but I'm still a little irratated with him putting me in that situation. I was less then 3 feet away from FSS and I find FDH's actions as being completely innapropriate.