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I can't stand my step son

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I cannot stand my steo son. He is 9 years old and completely in my last nerve. Her has two sisters whom I love very much. And do any thing I can for them.

I didn't dislike him at first. But he continues to he so rude and disrespectful. I will give a few examples.

The girls were sick so I went to the store and got them a sick bag. Princess tissue, vicks, cough suckers ect. I didn't want him to feel left out so I got him a large sucker and light up bouncy ball. When I gave it to him he said this is it.

We have age appropriate chires set up for the kids. He had to sweep the floor, take the trash out once a week, do his homework. That was it. He repeatedly said it wasn't his and that he wasn't going to do it.

The ex used to do all his homework so now he has to do it. He cannot read or spell. So we set up a spelling test. He refuses to do it. The only word he would get right was the bonus word which was to get him motivated and if he got it right he would get a toy. He woykd only get that word right so we stopped that. He now refuses to rwad or donhis spelling test.

Whenever we go to store he feels I should buy him something. He asks for eveything.

whenever I'm doing something with the girls he has to come and interrupt or ask them to go with him.

He always has to have all the attention.

He recently told his grandfather i beat the girls. Which infuriated me! I wouls never hurt the girls. I was also my fathers punhing bag so I would never do anything like that! We sat down and had a talk with him about how serious that is ect. He said he doesnt like me because I don't buy him enough stuff ahd don't do fun things with him. I took him to a dinosaur exibit play thing with his siters and he complained the whole time, I tok him to the zoo he complained, I took him to the park to feed ducks he asked why I took them when the ground was wet. I can't win woth this ungrateful kid.

Also the ex is completely out ofnthe picture.

I am completely done with this kid. I'm to a point where I don't know what to do.

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The kids at school he acts nicely too. But his sisters hes not good to. He tries to manipulate them. He steps on their shoe laces so they fall. He flipped a shopping cart with them in it. He slammed the youngest girls finger in the door because he got angry at her.

He just thinks everyone owes him. I am to a breaking point.