As the girl friend and mother of his 3rd child, what can i do to help my NF fight his ex-wife. she is being so unfair with visitation and custody. my BF is a great dad and love his children to death. but because she wants all this child support money she doesnt want to share custody. we know she doesnt want the boys b/c they are never with her when we call on weekend or through the week. they are either at her grandmother or mothers and she doesnt bathe them everyday even on school days, or even feed them... we have picked them up on numerous occasion, when they would tell us that they hadn't eatten all day and theses little boys are onf 5 and 4 years old. my BF want s to be fair and have 50-50 custoday, but she want and then she went and lied to got an epo on him to gain temp custoday leaving him with only four days a month to see his boys.. It breaks my heart to watch him cry when the oldest one calls and tell him he wishes that his dad was there. And to beat it all its all her fault she cheated on him and then he went back to her and she cheated again and he then went a third time and told her if she promises to never cheat he would come back and they would work it all out and she said no. Then she tells the boys that daddy doesnt want to come home. after they had been split up a year i come in the pic and she tells the boys that this is all my fault i am why daddy doesnt want to come home.. and now that me and Bf has had a baby girl she want divorec him - its like she is so jealouse that she wants to control him and tell us what to do. I am the type of person that doesnt what i want ewhen i want and having to ask her to see the boys ticks me off and makes him feel less of a man..
is there anything i can do beside beat the sh**outof her... any advice?