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Submitted by secondbest on Thu, 05/17/2007 - 12:48pm

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SD has decided to call the shots, dh has 50/50 custody she wont come over to the house she claims to hate me all of a sudden after 13 years.Now she wants to come and play with 1/2 siblings for a few hours and days a week; what do we do?

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Submitted by Chocoholic on Thu, 05/17/2007 - 2:35pm

This girl thinks she is going to call the shots?? Ummm, what I would do it tell her to take a flying leap! Don't let her be in control!! Don't even entertain the thought or she will take that and run...

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Submitted by evilsm on Fri, 05/18/2007 - 10:56am

What does BM say about this? I agree w/chocoholic, kids don't need to be making these decisions. Hell the adults have a hard enough time with it!

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Submitted by secondbest on Sat, 05/19/2007 - 9:20am

She is now 15 1/2. The therapist says she sees this as a start. A start..... give me a break this kid has always given me sh*t but never this bad we have co-habited quite a bit in the last 12 years and now all of a sudden she is donw and can't try anymore.