The first is, you could try couples counseling if your BF would be willing to go. Does he want to have another child, but can't because afford it because of CS obligations? Or does he not want to have one? These are questions that probably would come up in couples counseling, and these are issues a therapist could help you both work through.
If that won't work, then the next option is to reconsider and reevaluate your relationship with BF.
Regardless of which option you choose, please try to remember that this is not SD's fault. If BF wants to have another child but can't afford to because of CS, then that is on money-sucking, greedy courts and BM. If he doesn't want to have another child, those are all feelings he chooses to have.
I hope things work out for you, and that you get to become a mom.
tlemon31-Me and my fiance sat and asked my kids about a new baby, they are so excited with the idea of having a baby sister. Just talk with her if thats the case because we would have continued with or without my kids approval.
"Dh is not sure about havin a baby because of how she might feel."
Absolutely LUDICROUS!!! This shows that DH has totally given adult spousal status to SD and SHE is his "mini wife." You are just a skid entitlement session facilitator.
Can you imagine an "intact" family getting the OPINION of their children before having another baby???!!! Out of the question!!
Elaborate
Elaborate
I think you have a few
I think you have a few options.
The first is, you could try couples counseling if your BF would be willing to go. Does he want to have another child, but can't because afford it because of CS obligations? Or does he not want to have one? These are questions that probably would come up in couples counseling, and these are issues a therapist could help you both work through.
If that won't work, then the next option is to reconsider and reevaluate your relationship with BF.
Regardless of which option you choose, please try to remember that this is not SD's fault. If BF wants to have another child but can't afford to because of CS, then that is on money-sucking, greedy courts and BM. If he doesn't want to have another child, those are all feelings he chooses to have.
I hope things work out for you, and that you get to become a mom.
How old is she
How old is she
tlemon31-Me and my fiance sat
tlemon31-Me and my fiance sat and asked my kids about a new baby, they are so excited with the idea of having a baby sister. Just talk with her if thats the case because we would have continued with or without my kids approval.
"Dh is not sure about havin a
"Dh is not sure about havin a baby because of how she might feel."
Absolutely LUDICROUS!!! This shows that DH has totally given adult spousal status to SD and SHE is his "mini wife." You are just a skid entitlement session facilitator.
Can you imagine an "intact" family getting the OPINION of their children before having another baby???!!! Out of the question!!
Ditch this guy pronto!
That's BS. He's using his
That's BS. He's using his daughter as an excuse no to have another child.
What has the girl done for
What has the girl done for you to hate her?