Well the title pretty much says it all. We get one skid free weekend a month (if we're lucky) and he says he has to work Saturday, which he doesn't end up having to, so he goes hangs out with his mates, without me. Now this wouldn't be a big deal but 2 weeks ago I got back from work after being away for 3 months so I thought he would like to spend some time with me, in a couple weeks time I will be going out to work for another 6 weeks and it is literaly impossible to spend time together. So far we have had 2 days alone together. We are going to a friends place tonight for a few drinks but he has to work again tomorrow. Its his choice to work, he doesn't have to. I'm just really aggravated. Is this just a guy thing? Cos I know if the situation was reversed I'd be spending as much time with him as possible. He doesn't get it, if I bring it up its gonna cause a massive argument, I'd be better off banging my head against a brick wall. I'm going to therapy next week, I think I'd like someone who has a degree in headcase work to tell me I'm not over-reacting. I'm keen for couples therapy but he's not as keen, I suspect he doesn't want a qualified person to tell him that I'm being reasonable and he fucks things up like this all the time.