F'N BM TAKING HER SWEET TIME GETTING SD13...WTF????
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ugh, ok so i made dinner for all 4 of us since i knew bm wouldnt be here (or suppossed to be here) till a little after 5....made chicken, mashies, and just one pack of broc n cheese.....apparently sd13 LIKES the veggie shit, unknown to me since the f'n brat hardly eats anything i make...so she had a fit when there was none left for her. bf makes a big deal about it, saying that i left out sd, fuck that shit. the lil pothead loser scarfed down more than half a pizza pie last night in one sitting!
anyways, bm says she is going to store b4 getting sd...fuckin cunt. she KNOWS i anxiously wait for her to get sd every other weekend....
Wow this is a new one
Wow this is a new one ~complaining because a kid WANTS veggies.LOL
Why didn't her dad (or her) just pop more veggies in the microwave?
No kidding.
No kidding.
lol, it isnt the fact that
lol, it isnt the fact that she wanted them, cause personally i dont think she did. i think she just had to cause a problem. she hardly eats what i make for dinner...and we are a household who eats homecooked meals almost all week. i dont stress about it anymore, sd is old enough to make herself a bowl of cereal or a sandwhich.
BM probability didn't want to
BM probability didn't want to feed her and put in her head before that dad wont make enough for you. When do kids ever complain about not getting veggies.
Pffffft it could have been
Pffffft it could have been poop, but if there wasn't enough for her, she would bitch about it. That's just how it goes with skids. Put a big pile of broc and cheese on her plate and she'll turn her nose up at it. Don't give her any and you're excluding her.
bf was going to make more,
bf was going to make more, five minutes tops, but sd ran to her room all dramatic and slammed her door. had there been enough to begin with she wouldnt have even looked at them, but i guess she needed to make a problem.
She sounds lovely....
She sounds lovely....
Bf's an ass. Let him do the
Bf's an ass. Let him do the cooking from now on. I'd have a hard time not making her some very special brownies. }:) Just to apologize for my inconsiderate behavior.
Damned if you do, damned it
Damned if you do, damned it you don't . lol
this is extremely true, a
this is extremely true, a catch-22. most of these stepkids should have this tattooed to their foreheads.
i think what bothered me was bf's reaction. i have been involved with sd more than her 2 bios, bf cause he has always worked his ass off to provide but couldnt seem to add 'parenting' to his schedule, and bm cause she's just a deadbeat....so when he makes it like i dont give a shit about sd, it pisses me off!!
i dont love sd...she makes it impossible for someone outside her gene pool to love her. but i do care...maybe not as much as i should but i do.
i could become a real nasty bitch and ignore her and her needs completly..would bf take over? sure. would he let me forget how i 'abandoned' sd? probably not. i do what i want for her...if it isnt life or death and i dont feel like it, then i dont.
Reply to DH: How is this my
Reply to DH: How is this my fault again?
That's my SD too. I make
That's my SD too. I make honey-butter buiscuts for breakfast. SS loves them, SD doesn't. SS always asked for a second (unsually a third) and SD has never wanted a second. So I started just hobby SS 2 (and he gets his third after he finishes his meal), and SD 1, but apparently that makes me "mean". She doesn't want it, but doesn't want SS to get it either cause that's not fair.
So I say, well SD you can have two rolls too, do you want another one?.... no. Then what's the problem?...... It's not fair that he gets two and I only get one. You're mean.......
It's no win. Either I only let everyone have one roll (and end up throwing some out) so keep SD happy..... And then SS misses out. I make everyone eat two to keep it even.... Then she's pissed that I am forcing her to eat them. Or give him more, and her less.... And then I am mean and unfair.