So, I posted that I had not been feeling well due to a stomach virus, fever etc something I believe I contracted at work. DH has had stomach issues but it is due to the fact of the change in diet from work to home, as he did not eat the healthiest at work and we eat healthier at home, also he has had drainage issues due to the weather changes and all that.

SS as been fine the whole time and has even picked on us not feeling well. He has road his dirt bike etc and been perfectly fine. DH dropped him off at school yesterday and he was perky and feeling well, and then BM picked him up from school.

When DH talked to SS last night he was playing and feeling fine or sounded like it and was asking when he could ride his dirtbike etc mind you it was alarming that he was up playing and energetic so late as DH was calling thinking SS was about to go to bed or may have already been in bed as he had lost his phone and is no longer allowed to use mine to call.

I was looking forward to a semi-relaxed day with DH as I over slept so am working from home again, and we were both going to do errands this afternoon and I was thinking a date night so that we could take my grandmother out for dinner for birthday tomorrow but that all changed when BM called saying SS was sick and she got called into work (though she claims to courts and everyone she doesn't have a job - though we know she works under the table for cash) and that SS was coming over. Mind you there was no previous contact this morning that he was sick and not going to school - it only came up when she needed someone to watch him which shoots up a red flag of her possibly keeping him home simply because she didn't want to take him to school (something that happens about every other time DH goes to work).

This rubs me wrong as he was fine and she even told DH that he said he got sick from me mind you I have been sick since Friday and so why would when I start to feel good he say he doesn't feel good? I wanted just one day of decent time with DH and I really hope this doesn't ruin our time tomorrow too as I can see him spending the night if she comes up with plans - mind you it is the optimal night to go to the bar...

What also bothers me is when SS walked in the door he was all perky and stuff until I asked what was wrong and his whole attitude changed and he went over to cuddle with DH acting like a baby asking him to coddle him. DH made a comment that he just didn't want to go to school and SS's face lit up and you could see him start to say yes then stop himself and just sit there in silence until DH asked again and then responded "no" cuddling tighter.

I believe the kid is probably tired as he stayed up something that is a issue at BM's house and the teacher has even made comments in the past he would come to school saying he was tired as he had stayed up late, but I don't know if he is necessarily sick.

I feel guilty for feeling annoyed but this is a kid who convinced BM at age 5 he couldn't go to school because he had athlete's foot and she got the doctor to write him a fake note.

Why can't DH see that SS is most likely 90%+ playing a game because I called him out asking what was wrong and I know it is ridiculous he would randomly get what I had after I was better and we don't share drinks anything!

I just feel so annoyed how does BM get away with shit, and DH lets SS play the card to get what he wants. I swear if I go do my errands and come back to them outside riding I will probably lose my cool.