Finally left for good!
Last night I finally did it! We had our last and final fight and I told him it was over. He told me last night that when he is playing poker (I say playing because he thinks its a job I don't) I should watch his son for him all day. cook him breakfast, lunch, and dinner while he lays in bed and plays poker all day. He claims professional poker is his job. We have been together almost seven months and he has made a few hundred dollars playing poker, doesn't sound very professional to me. I told him I refuse to spend all weekend watch his son and cooking his meals for him while he plays poker. It's not my job he is not my son he is his son. I believe my only responsibility is to take care of my own children. He also told me weeks ago he doesn't consider me family and will not consider me family until we are married.
I told him it's not my job to watch his son so he can play poker, and then he throws out well then you don't want to be a blended family. He only wants to be a family when it's convenient for him or when it is benefitting him. He is by far the most selfish human I have ever met. It is all about him and his son. It has never been about me or my children to him. I am so happy I am done.
honestly
Honestly this was by far the worse relationship I ever encountered it was pure hell. He became extremely controlling. It all happened after I went to a wedding with my handicapped friend we took a picture and crazy said that was cheating. Yet he was still friends with the girl he hooked up with before me, and he was still going to play dates with their kids. He could talk to her. But he made me delete any guy that ever flirted with me or any guy he considered a f*ck boy. He would constantly accuse me of talking to people behind his back, and he would accuse me of wanting to go and drink with all these guys. He made me completely miserable.
step parenting had nothing to
step parenting had nothing to do with this relationship not working. This guy sounds like a horrible partner and it has almost nothing to do with the fact that he has a child. So glad you woke up and saw the light.
I actually
I actually feel bad for his son. His son acts bad because that is the way his father raised him. His dad has him walking around in rags from last year. The clothes are so tight they ride up his butt. He spends all his money gambling.
SayNoSKIDS
I truly do believe he does have a gambling addiction. He claims he is a professional poker player and has NOTHING to show for it. In the almost 7 months we were together he had 300-400 dollars, and he has to uber all the time. He has taken out two payday loans in a few short months so he can play poker, and claims it is his job. I told him I didn't agree and that made him flip his shit. He sits there and doesn't win money he loses it. I would not be friends with him. I am friends with none of my ex's I am civil with my oldest sons father. We were together for six years. He used to get jealous of that to when my sons father would text me he would say I should tell him when him or any other men text me. I just cannot stand being in a controlling relationship, and I cannot be in a relationship where I am expected to take care of his kid when he sits on his butt all day
Who supporting him
How can he live for 7 months on a few hundred dollars? Can’t even support himself on a few hundred how does he support his kid ??,
Harry
He gets death benefits for his son, and when he loses money playing poker he has to go uber and lyft for 10 hours 7 days a week.
We know a professional poker player...
... who has a full-time M-F job, and runs his own concrete company on the side, working weekends & evenings. He's in a local poker club & usually wins their games & then they sponsor him playing the annual Vegas championships. Super-nice guy, doesn't need the money...
...he just has an excellent WORK ETHIC. A foreign concept for your now-Ex, right?
I'm glad you left him and
I'm glad you left him and what a real loser he is. Please keep moving forward and NEVER look back. He's a sorry excuse for a father if he's placing the responsibility of caring for his son on you. He is the father and needs to get some serious help regarding his addiction.
Wishing you the best!
Good riddance! It's
Good riddance! It's interesting that someone without a real job or anything to bring to the table thinks they can be so controlling of their SO, plus be a jealous asshat on top of it all, and expect their SO to stay. He should just be happy you slept with him, since he sounds like a complete loser. You made a wise choice to leave him!
So, the words say it is over.
So, the words say it is over. When will actions make it happen?
Good for you, pink! Stay
Good for you, pink! Stay strong and best of luck to you.