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Comin' up on the 1 year anniversary of SD's departure from my home.....

evilicious says I quit steppin's picture

SD hit 18 last May. Graduated toward the first of June. Spoke with her BM for the first time in 13 years 2 days before graduation.

SD claimed to be knocked up, and not responsible enough to care for her 'thing' so DH volunteered US to take on the rearing of IT. Turns out SD is a big fat liar. A big fat bipolar liar. SD is not knocked up, but DH saw fit to give the little snot over $500. We're short on everydamnthing this month. AC went out Saturday. DH paid $500 for a days worth of AC. Now we are in the hole for over %6000. Gotta love living in the South where we neeeeeed the big ass units. I miss my air and my booze.

I have been job hunting big time since I found out about the AC replacement. DH is retired and disabled military so we are not hurting if things are done right. SD texted daddy the other night and he felt that he needed to share how stressed out and anxious she is. My reply....about what...the f-cking ferret food? She just scammed him outta money and here it comes again.

Tonight, while he was at AA, I put in for a job at the liquor store and bought meself a bottle. F)ck this shit.

IslandGal's picture

Geez! I totally understand your anger!! I would be livid with my SO if he did that.. absolutely LIVID!!

SD15 hasn't been over since 2013 and maintains a nasty arrogant attitude towards her Father. She's as stubborn as all hell and is "punishing" him by refusing to have anything to do with him. My worst nightmare is if she turned 18 and ended up pregnant. I would freak the mother fuck out if he even suggested to me that we help her raise it.. I'd boot his ass out the door to go play happy house with her.. no friggin' WAY would I even think about helping her!!

Go find yourself a job and start putting money away for yourself. You never, never know when it becomes all too much and you find yourself wanting to jet the hell outta there.

Ohsoconfused's picture

Make sure you put the pay from the job you get..into an account in YOUR name only so he can't give the $ to SD.