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Submitted by SugarSpice on Thu, 03/12/2015 - 12:26am

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some time ago adult sd and i had an argument in which sd name called me (told me to go to h#ll) and i told her to move out. she has not moved back in. at the time dh took back the house key for good measure.

i recently learned that dh gave the key back to sd without aksing me. he said enough time had passed and it appear she and i were on good terms.

i was angry to say the least. i dont want sd to have free access to the house to come and go as she pleases. she is still a sulking beyotch around me.

dh said its water under the bridge and to move on.

your thoughts?

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Submitted by goingslowlycrazy on Thu, 03/12/2015 - 2:51am

Move on and let it go are my DH"s favourite mantras ..when he's gone back on his word and something we've made a decision on together..the only thing I'll be moving on from and letting go are him

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Submitted by Rags on Thu, 03/12/2015 - 2:21pm

Call and have a locksmith rekey the locks. End of problem. Give DH only one key. Or ..... put in a key pad lock with one code for you, and one for DH. Reset his code periodically. Also, put in a security system with cameras. If she enters without the security code the alarm will go off and the police will deal with her.

There is all kinds of fun you can have with this.

Enjoy!!! }:)

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Submitted by kathc on Thu, 03/12/2015 - 2:43pm

He shouldn't be giving a key to ANYONE without asking you and both of you agreeing it's ok. What an ass.

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Submitted by SugarSpice on Fri, 03/13/2015 - 12:28am

dh was whipped by his ex and now by his daughters.

the only balls he has are to holler at me when something in his life is eating at him, like his stupid parents who frittered their life savings away with extravagance and now have to beg money from the only son who made anything of himself, or one daughter who cant seem to get a decent job because she parties all night and every night.

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Submitted by sammigirl on Wed, 05/02/2018 - 10:07pm

Have the locks rekeyed and obtain new keys.  

Just when does your DH  think for you and know when you should like or dislike someone, especially after the way you were treated.  NOT   My DH tried this and he was put in place in less than 30 seconds.  Tell your DH "It may be water under the bridge, but it still runs high and butt out of your business, where SD is concerned."  Then disengage, after you have the locks rekeyed.  Teach your SD a few manners.  I did all of this, so I've been there. 

Teaching your DH and SD that you are your own person is a well learned lesson.  (((hugs)))