After 3 years of keepings swins 365 days a year & paying for everything whilst paying CS to BM (joint custody is CO), DH told her "No more check for nothing." Today he filed petition w/court for modification (due to BM's excessive ball squeezing). Scare tactic that used to work? When this is over I betcha she pays DH child support based on whatever formula court has for unemployed ball squeezers who refuse to work b.c. they spawned 15 years ago. Why did DH do this now? Love for me? No. Respect for me? No. Respect for himself: No. Reason is she squeezed him dry! He finally realized he'll be paying for both twins cars/insurance/gas 100% and it won't be cheap. Disney Dad just purchased 2012 jeep for twin 1 thinking that twin 2 would get car/insurance via BM. BM set him straight! She ordered him to sell his new jeep and rebuy two vehicles, split proceeds into two for each twin's car. Ahhhh, but he told her, not going to sell b.c. driving it until skid gets license next fall. That ball squeezing conversation shocked him. Who knew she had his balls? I DID hence why I love this website. As Wife 2 married to a man for 4 years w/no balls I was not attracted to this balless creature, esp. while I work fulltime, insure them all, be StepMom 365 days a year and knowing she rec. child support. I certainly deserve this day. And if she decides to keep one skids fulltime --PLEASE DO. Please please do it. Twins hate eachother, and one twin (her fav.) hates me and is violent. I can't push for that, Mum's the word.