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BM letting us have kids for Thanksgiving

Smomof3's picture

Our BM is letting us have the kids for Thanksgiving for the first time in 7 oir 8 years? What's the deal? What is she up to? Whatever her motive is I can guarantee you it's self serving in some way.

Honestly, I don't want them even though it is our weekend. I'm not thrilled with having SD15 for 4 days and seeing her mope around the entire time.

Also, DH doesn't even want to get her anything for Christmas because she's so much of an ungrateful pain in the ass. She's already F'd up...what would no Christmas from "Daddy" do to her?

I'm just waiting on the bomb to drop at some point soon.

ACAM2012's picture

Whenever SD's BM gives up visitation time it's always related to a man. BM does not have custody and only sees SD on the weekends and holidays. BM always sends SD to grama's house for at least one night over the weekend. If I only saw my kid on the weekends I certainty wouldn't ship them off to grandmas!!! But, like I said...BM loves her "men" more than her kid.

Smomof3's picture

Our BM is a lesbian and has a wife...this is their first married Thanksgiving together and they may be doing something with the "wifey's" family.

RedWingsFan's picture

Sounds like BM has a hot date...

And if DH doesn't get her anything for Christmas, that's on him. If the kid hasn't put in any effort she doesn't deserve a present anyway! She's old enough to know there's consequences for her actions!

BSgoinon's picture

>>>>>>>Our BM is letting us have the kids for Thanksgiving for the first time

This statement just kills me. When one parent "lets" the other have the kids. As though they created those kids all on their own.

SMof2Girls's picture

LOL our BM does the same exact thing.

I should drum up the emails from her about our recent trip to TX to visit the kids.

Something along the lines of, "I'm going out of my way to let you see the girls this weekend! I do not have to do this since the girls have other activities and your visitation is not allowed to interfere with previously scheduled activities."

All that despite volumes of emails stating he would attend their games, as scheduled, and no school would be missed. And I still don't see how she went out of her way to do anything .. we had to fly there for goodness sake!

She didn't cave until DH told the girls we were coming and couldn't wait to see them play!