BM expected a happy mothers day from DH... LMFAO
I know this is late, but then I recently got back online... Any way, did any of you experience drama over mothers day & fathers day?
BMs mother called me after not being able to get a hold of DH, & asked me to have DH call BM asap because it was an emergency. So I look up at DH because we are cuddled up in bed and hand him the phone. BMs mother asked DH why he hasn't called "the mother of your only precious son" (her exact words) "and wished her a happy mothers day" She was appalled at his heart less behavior lol. So DH felt like he was put on the spot & just to shut her up, gave her some lame excuse about being to busy. So she says well here is your chance now, & hands the phone to BM. I noticed the look on his face & knew he was going to let her have it. He told BM "you must be out your damn mind to even think you deserve good wishes from me, first of all you must be a good mother for me to even wish you a happy mothers day, what kind of mother has no job, lives at home with her mom, lives off of child support money & food stamps, takes week long vacation trips to the beach & then wants to turn around 3 days later after vacation & beg me for money for diapers & wipes???" After a long pause waiting for her reply he says "exactly, don't you feel stupid" and hangs up the phone. We looked at each other & started laughing. Well it gets better... BMs mother texted my phone:
I can't believe your husband didn't even get inspired by you, you should've been the bigger person here and asked to text my daughter happy mothers day, only because its the right thing to do. If that didn't work, it cost you nothing to text it to my daughter using his cell phone, she would've never known it was you, and it would've made her day... SHAME ON YOU!!
LMFAO!!!!!!! These people are beyond craziness!!!! I see where BM gets her stupidness from, her damn mother!!!!!
WTF!!!! I'm to busy celebrating mothers day with my own MOTHER & sister who is also a mom, to even let BM cross my mind let alone pose as BD wishing her Happy mothers day just to make her day....
News flash, my life does not revolve around BM nor do I care to make her day, or to worship her on the high pedestal that everybody placed her in!
LOL shortly after BM texted DH: well don't be expecting a happy fathers day from me then since you want to be an ass...
He replied: please don't, I have my wife for that, plus I hate to be reminded that you even exist & that I'm attached to via my son...
oh. my. gawd. that is making
oh. my. gawd. that is making me want to bang my head on something. yep, your bm and her mama are NUTZO!!
OMG!!!!!!!! That truly is
OMG!!!!!!!! That truly is nuts. Why didn't the GM take time out with the kid to make a card or something? I took time out one day to drive SS to get a birthday gift for his mom, mind you this is BM#1 and I would give her the time of day.
So because the woman did a
So because the woman did a lousy job raising HER daughter, thus the reason she is such a pathetic mother, it's now up to your DH to make her daughter feel good? LOL gotta love these crazies. But realize, that usually, if you have a pathetic mother, she probably also had a pathetic mother herself. Thus don't deal with either of the crazies.
By the way, not sure why your MIL has your DHs phone number, she should not. The only one who should have it is the ex and that's only until he stops paying CS...other than that, I would have DH change his number or never answer calls from the crazy ex-mil. He's nothing to her anymore and she needs to be stopped.
Agreed!
Agreed!
DH is of the school that the
DH is of the school that the husband doesn't wish Happy Mother's Day, the kids do. (I know, if I had kids with him, I would have retrained him)
Well, the first year we were married SS14 and SS18 begged DH to buy flowers for BM because "they didn't have any money." Not for flowers, the beer and cigs took it all...anyway, the florist, who has known the family for years, signed the card, "DH, SD and SS." We didn't know until DH got a call from BM thanking him. WTF! Both of us were ticked off at that one...
OMG LOVE THIS LOVE THIS LOVE
OMG LOVE THIS LOVE THIS LOVE THIS. YOUR DH IS HILARRIIIOOOUUUUUUSSSSS
I'm like crying right now and my coworkers are asking me if I'm okay. This was amazing.
LMFAO!!!!! Worthless crotch
LMFAO!!!!! Worthless crotch droppings!!!!! I'm gonna have to steal this one, this shit is too funny!!!!!!
Gotta love those crazy BM
Gotta love those crazy BM families! I mean, sorry you have to put up with this but it sounds like your DH has it somewhat under control!! Love his response!!
In what world is it your DHs job to wish her a happy mother's day?!?!? My DH would never call BM on mother's day, send a card, send flowers, or anything! She is a LOUSY mother and doesn't even deserve hearing it from my skids!
I wonder if your BM & GM are aware of how nuts they are!
Lol they are not. I summed it
Lol they are not. I summed it up just so I wouldn't write a book about the whole issue. But there was way more after. GM went completely nuts over the whole thing, the next day my MIL was calling DH & asking him what had happened because GM called her too to tell her that her lousy son didn't wish BM happy mothers day! It turned it to a week long battle between BM mom & DH mom & dad, & me cause she kept texting me. They just blew this whole thing out of proportion over something so petty. Befor all this stupidness the whole family was getting along fine & took about a month for them (BM family) to finally get over it, & to resume to normal civilization between all of us.
Lol they are not. I summed it
Lol they are not. I summed it up just so I wouldn't write a book about the whole issue. But there was way more after. GM went completely nuts over the whole thing, the next day my MIL was calling DH & asking him what had happened because GM called her too to tell her that her lousy son didn't wish BM happy mothers day! It turned it to a week long battle between BM mom & DH mom & dad, & me cause she kept texting me. They just blew this whole thing out of proportion over something so petty. Befor all this stupidness the whole family was getting along fine & took about a month for them (BM family) to finally get over it, & to resume to normal civilization between all of us.
Lol they are not. I summed it
Lol they are not. I summed it up just so I wouldn't write a book about the whole issue. But there was way more after. GM went completely nuts over the whole thing, the next day my MIL was calling DH & asking him what had happened because GM called her too to tell her that her lousy son didn't wish BM happy mothers day! It turned it to a week long battle between BM mom & DH mom & dad, & me cause she kept texting me. They just blew this whole thing out of proportion over something so petty. Befor all this stupidness the whole family was getting along fine & took about a month for them (BM family) to finally get over it, & to resume to normal civilization between all of us.
Lol they are not. I summed it
Lol they are not. I summed it up just so I wouldn't write a book about the whole issue. But there was way more after. GM went completely nuts over the whole thing, the next day my MIL was calling DH & asking him what had happened because GM called her too to tell her that her lousy son didn't wish BM happy mothers day! It turned it to a week long battle between BM mom & DH mom & dad, & me cause she kept texting me. They just blew this whole thing out of proportion over something so petty. Befor all this stupidness the whole family was getting along fine & took about a month for them (BM family) to finally get over it, & to resume to normal civilization between all of us.