Even get sick of having to defend yourself when stepkid runs to their bio saying you were "mean' to them all because you ignored them when they were acting entitled, spoiled and you refused to give into what they wanted at the time and told them no? Then your spouse quesitons you about what happened? Ever get tired of the bs? Really Ive been so nice to his kids. I cater ot their every need, take them out to lunch on my dime happily and go where they want. I help them cut their food and clean up after them even though they are old enough to do so, I even buy them things they ask for when they have tons of toys and grow qucikly bored with them. I babysit them for free even though they are not the best behaved at times. When they act up and fight with one another or complain I dont do what they ask (play dolls with them, watch their hundredth cartwheel,  I dont take their toy away from the dog that is chewing on it because theyve been told a million times not to leave their toys out where the dogs cna get it, etc) they run to daddy or mommy and whine and cry then daddy asks me what happens as if I was some monster who was mean to his precious (I am not and never have been but have made the mistake of catering to their every need). I shouldnt need to explain myself. When he asks me I should say "Your child is spoiled and poorly behaved as a result of your poor parenting and this is the result" Anyone else get sick of the bs?