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Biological mom has no contact with child in over two months

mommy123's picture

I am an active stepparent to my 10.5 stepdaughter. We have a really good relationship, and i have been taken care of her since she was three. We have an awesome relationship, but mom hates my guts. I am well seasoned with the BM drama issues, hell i have been dealing with them for years. When she found out i was the new girl in her BF life, she dawged me to her daughter. She used to say things to her daughter about me, and still at this age she continues. Im used to it, and the only thing changed from then to now is my stepdaughter has a voice. When she was younger she would just listen and repeat it, now she gets angery at mom for talking about me. I try and reinforce to my stepdaughter that im a big girl, dont argue with her mom. just ignore her comments. I laugh because anyone who takes that much time to try and make a kid, hate the stepparent, its childish. Anyways, mom stopped coming around after there last argument about me. Its been two months and still no word from mom. My stepdaughters second day of school, she asked me could she call. I said ok, and of course she didnt answer. My SD seemed very concerned that she wasnt returning her calls, and wanted to go by her house. My husband took her,(its only around the corner, literally 4 min away). My stepdaughter knocks, her mother asks who is it. Well it was nine oclock at night and we never pop up. Our attitude towards her mom is if you want her or want to talk to her daughter she will call. My stepdaughter says its me mommy, and her mother instantly starts yelling at her through the door. "dont be popping up at my house"! My stepdaughter runs from the house, and her father was so upset he went back to the door n knocked. she wouldnt answer so he said loud so she can hear him say to my stepdaughter. You dont need her , you got your family.If your mother doesnt want to be bothered FU** Her. I think he was upset how she is doing her only child. Any input

Doubletakex3's picture

That's every child's worst nightmare come true. I hope there's special place in the after life for "mothers" like her.

hbell0428's picture

I feel you - SD14 lives w/ us and BM does the very least.....at least you have a relationship w/ your SD! Mines a complete idiot. Grasp on to SD for as long as she lets you.