Whenever I suggest something my husband sides with his kids. I'm tired of it. Recently there was an issue with my stepdaughter. She's a good student, fairly responsible, but she has way to much privilege with using our car. We have this spare car and got it for the purpose of kids to use. I would like for her to contribute towards the insurance and upkeep. She's working and feels entitled to use it when she wants. She even said last year that she couldn't wait to get her license so she could take the car and not the bus. I don't want her using the car to school. My husband defends her! He complained to me...did your mom charge you to use her car? My reply was I didn't use it, I didn't go anywhere, and when I graduated I purchased a beater and then paid my own expenses. Step kids are spoiled brats and my husband defends her tooth and nail. I want to separate from him.