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And Just When We Thought It Was All Over...BAM Mommy Dearest Raises Her Head Again

Uddermudder123's picture

And just when we thought it we were in the clear...BM has reared her head again...

SD turned 18 in September.  She is a drop out. Not working although says she is actively looking for one.  Lives with BM.  SD enrolled in a program at the local high school in the town she and BM live in that is supposed to aid her in getting credits required for her high school diploma and to also help with finding a job - similar to a co-op program but not quite the same from my understanding.  

SD informed us that it wasn't a full time program, that she would only attend a few classes a week.  That does not constitute a full time program.

Because it isn't a full time program, CS stopped in September when SD turned 18.  This per the law.  And DH's new agreement with BM clearly states that DH is to receive proof of enrollment in a full time program and regular full time attendance.

BM contacted me (not DH for some reason) by email stating that DH needs to pay up.  That SD is enrolled in a full time program and went on and on about what it is about and how it works and that DH need to continue paying CS and owing for the past two months.  And that he needs to pay up by end of this week otherwise her lawyer will go through FRO (Family Registers Office) to begin the process of garnishing DH's wages. She also attached a letter of confirmation from the school stating that SD had been attending school full time since the beginning of October.  Like what the actual F...???  

DH called the school and found out that SD is enrolled in this program but that this is program that they build for her and that it hasn't started yet  (something to do with no job to put her in???) therefore she hasn't been to school yet.

So BM just called up the school secretary and asked her to send a letter stating that SD was going to school but she actually isn't??? The letter does not confirm the program or even that it is a full time program at that (which she needs to do per the agreement). But it lies and states that SD is going to school full time?  

I'm flabbergasted.  Totally blown away right now.  That this digusting piece of flesh is threatening DH over something that isn't even true???  

Of course I have not responded to BM's email. And won't.  Over the past almost two years any dealings where she is concerned has only been via lawyers. We are waiting for our lawyer to call us back to determine next steps.

When will this ever end??? UGH!!!

 

 

 

JRI's picture

I agree, let your lawyer handle it.  Perhaps he can threaten BM about false allegations.

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Sic your lawyer on BM and block her from emailing you. 

simifan's picture

Anyone else thinking mommy dearest knows someone in the school office. 

MorningMia's picture

Good point. Which is why I agree with la dulce vida's advice! 

Harry's picture

School letter  head did that letter.  Who sign it ?   Talk to the Superintendent of Schools. And find out who is giving false information.   $hit rolle down hill. A talk with the Superintendent will get $hit rolling