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I went back on my word

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Submitted by toomuchstresshere on Sun, 04/12/2009 - 11:03am

and feel like sh*t for it! I had told DH that I would no longer be bathing sd3 anymore because he had told me last week that all of a sudden "I didn't do it the right way" But I caved this morning after 3 days without a bath she was starting to reeeeekkkk! So yes I gave her a shower. Plus she's going back to bm tonight and I didn't want her to smell that bad. I have all kinds of reasons to justify it but damn I just wish I could say it and really stick to it! Oh BTW HAPPY EASTER all!

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Submitted by Sunflower on Sun, 04/12/2009 - 11:43am

Well for the sake of that little girl I am glad you caved in. Ugghh what is with these men!!! My H actually will let my skid go without a shower/bath for a few days on end.I usually step in and yell at him that its disgusting and then he will have them do it. Maybe you should remind him that bathing is a basic need and if those needs arent met the BM will most likely call child services!I hope for your sanity he starts taking care of his child. In the mean time he should be licking your boots because you just saved him from a heap of trouble w/ BM!

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Submitted by toomuchstresshere on Sun, 04/12/2009 - 5:12pm

I guess I could have let her go back to bm stinkin'. She might have called CPS or not. DH would have at least heard about it I'm sure. I am considering letting him take sole care of her when she is her (except meals) so that bm can see what a "wonderful" dad he is. Then maybe she won't let sd3 come over as often, I would miss her some but at least it'd be less work on me!