Here we go again!
Picked kids up last friday and yet again they didn't take a bath for 2 weeks.
Took the kids to the dr to get documentation on the kids. He said he will be calling the proper people.
In the mean time, she wouldn't meet us on last sunday because of the weather, so we have had them this week and this weekend too.They go home on sunday.
Got their grades and my 10yr old SD is failing the 5th grade. I called the school to get homework and they said they would have to mail it to us, so they will get it on monday. They said that they tried to get a hold of BM but couldn't in reguards to missing school this week. They said I was the first to notify them. Well they called BM when I got off the phone and talked to her about not calling them, and she call DH and said that the school told her that I am not to call them. Well, what a lie!! She has told me herself that she doesn't want me calling the school and that it is none of my business. Whatever!!!
She is so childish and a lier!! It makes me irritated because she think we don't know she is lying, but she is.
Then I talked to the 10yr old in reguards to her grades and she said that she told her teacher about BM not helping her with her homework. Well the teacher called BM and then when SD got home from school she got grounded for telling on BM.
I guess I really don't know what to say anymore about this, it is so crazy and stupid.
She couldn't take the time to call the school??
Plus she supposidly has strep throat, but cant go to the dr. Well that means she is contagious!!!! But, she won't let us keep the kids because "she said so"!!!!!!!
This is getting to a point where I am speachless!!!!!
How do we handle this while we are waiting for a response from CPS?
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excuse me , but.......
I have to ask, WHERE is Dad? Why are you calling and taking to doctor?
Yes, BM sounds like a self indulgent/occupied pice of work. But again,where is dad, why did the school not call him, why was he not notified ? And why is he not more involved now?
Well...
He is at work, he tried to call them on Monday and then again on Wednesday and it just so happens that the school had snow days on those days. On wednesday BM called and said she contacted the school and she really didn't. Lately dad has been working at job sites where he is not allowed to use his phone. He is truck driver, I told him to call inbetween loading and unloading, but then he reminded me that it is agains the law to use your cellphone while driving in this state.
Him and I have done all we can to take care of this but because the courts lean more the the mothers side, nothing is being done. We are waiting on the doctor to call CPS. Also, dad is the one who took them to the doctor, not me.
speaking from experience
Speaking from experience, I know it probably breaks your heart the way they are treated, but step back. Let DH handle it. Personally, if they were my kids, I would refuse to send them back, not much anybody can really do about it. Possesion is 9/10 of the law! Not to mention, no cop will get involved, because it is a "family court matter". Also, you can always say that they are being neglected and it is unsafe for them to return. You will, most likely end up in court, but the judge will see that DH cares more than to send them back to the situation.