Ha ha ha
BF's lawyer called him over to their office today. "You DO owe BM money..." she said. BM has been submitting her EOB's from the insurance company to the lawyers and saying that BF owes her half of that amount (the amount that INSURANCE paid, when her out of pocket expense is next to nothing), which came out to about $1000. So BF's lawyer went through everything she had and found out how much BM really did pay out of pocket so we would know the real amount that BF owed BM. Guess how much BF owes?
$160.
And that's not just for one month or even one year. That's dating back to April, 2005!
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Ha ha indeed...
bet her jaw hit the floor!
RE:
Well she had to know it was coming! She's the one paying so she should know she's only paid a few bucks every month. I don't know if she just expected BF to pay her without checking to see if her amount was right or what!
*~So sayeth Nymh~*
what's funny
is that probably doesn't cover her phone call to her lawyer trying to get the $$ to begin with!!
Oh my...
Now that's one to hurt the pocket book... tell her not to spend it all in one place! LMAO...
Man has the intelligence to change his life,
Sometimes, he just fails to use it...
Wow
a whopping $160 huh? Apparently she doesn't realize (of course not) that she spent more than $160 in her time putting all that phony paperwork together.
Don't you love people who fight for nothing?
Idiots...
RE:
Yeah, and what she doesn't realize is that if she had just given us the receipts, he would have paid her right away. But instead she had to dick around with all this phony paperwork and waste everyone's time. As soon as the lawyer told BF the correct amount, he wrote her a check.
*~So sayeth Nymh~*
of course not
she isn't going to directly give you the paperwork b/c that takes the fight out of everything. She blows everything out of proportion, points the finger at your bf claiming he's a deadbeat and OWES, OWES, OWES, and then when the truth is finally revealed, her balloon pops. I would also guess that she is completly clueless how much of an ass she is making out of herself. I'm sure everyone in your atty. office is shaking their heads in amazement.
I remember in our court days our bm would do similar things, we owe...blah blah blah..and then when the truth was revealed it was such minimal amounts, if anything was owed. Everything was such a constant fight, fighting over every stinking little thing. I remember a secretary from our atty office saying to me..."Let me guess...DH is the one who ended the relationship and THAT IS WHY SHE IS SO BITTER...." I just shook my head in agreement.
I love these little milestones for dad with psycho ex's....they want a fight, they huff and puff...and the best part about it is she didn't "win" anything...what a waste...
All I know is I have way better things to do than stupid shit like this...
Congrat's on the truth being told, hopefully you guys can laugh at it!
Candice
RE:
Every attorney in town knows who she is. She has such a bad reputation the judges even know who she is. The ladies at BF's divorce lawyers office have told BM off numerous times. My lawyer's secretary said I should subpoena HER to testify for me against BM! No lawyer in town will represent her because she has such a bad reputation - seriously. She's called several of them crying, trying to beg them to help her even though she has no money because BF and I are such vindictive predatory people. She even says herself that she thinks when she takes us to court, the rulings are biased because everyone in our county's legal system knows her case and they all side with BF and me. I think she knows full well how much of an ass she's making and she just doesn't care. She told me once about a year ago that she was in this for the MONEY alone, that the more money she got out of us the more she could use to raise SS, and she would get it no matter what it took or who had to get hurt in the process. "And that means you, BF, your lawyers, the judge, I don't care to sue everyone in the county for slander and force the judge to lose his job because he's presiding over a case that he's already familiar with outside the courtroom!"
Everything that happens is a circumstance which she's the victim. The sad thing is, I know how easy it would be to make the decision to just LET IT GO, get her life back in order, CLEAN THE DAMN HOUSE, and be a good mom to SS like she ought to. But she's so focused on TRYING to ruin our lives and bleed every penny from us that she can...
*~So sayeth Nymh~*
step-kid financial support
Next spring I will marry a man who has 2 kids. Great kids, they seem. I've met them only once. I have no kids of my own, am pretty successful, and have acquired everything I have with help from no one! My fiance would like for us to have joint accounts, and for all of his kids' expenses (child support for the next 7 years, medical, air tickets, COLLEGE) to come out of this account. I'm not so sure I want to lower my standard of living to finance someone else's choice to have children. There are awesome benefits of having children, and there are drawbacks. But the same is true not having children. Choices. He isn't responsible for mine, and I shouldn't be for his. What is the norm for women out there in my shoes....does a smart woman just assume the responsibility of someone else's choice? Why does me falling in love with a man make me responsible? Or am I selfish? (P.S....the ex doesn't work.....never has).
Re: Joint accounts
BF and I have separate accounts and probably always will. If we ever do get a joint account, it will be something like savings. I will never share an account with him out of which money is spent, and he never will with me. Our spending habits are so different that I would absolutely freak to see the balance on my account go from $7,000 one day, to $1,500 the next, then back to $5,000 and so on...but this sort of roller coaster happens daily in his accounts. Also, if our spending accounts are together, that means that part of MY money is going to pay child support, gas back and forth for the exchange, and half of the medical expenses for SS. I'm sorry, I love the kid, but I'm not funding him out of my pocket. I love him, and I don't mind helping BF out if he ever needs a little extra cash to pad his wallet while he waits for the next big deposit (he's a small-business owner) but I'm not paying his CS with him.
*~So sayeth Nymh~*
Yeahhhhhh.....
Love it, love it, love it.
Hee hee hee!!!!
I love when good things happen to good people!!! And evil BM's get theirs!!! Congrats at winning at BM's "game". Hope her jaw doesn't hurt too much from hitting the floor. ha-ha-ha!!!
What doesn't kill you, will make you stronger!
Bill
Nymph,
My DH's court order states that the medical bills must be presented within 30 days of the bill. Can she really go back and try to get the little bit DH owes? Seems to me that if she doesn't present the bill in a timely fashion then she is SOL anyway
RE: Bill
Actually, the court order states that they must be presented to us within 10 days. I think BF and the lawyer basically paid her just to shut her up.
*~So sayeth Nymh~*
I'm about to pay the
$160 just to shut her up myself! That's a cheap price tag for the strip of duct tape...
My dh has a joke....want to know why divorces are so expensive? B/c their worth it!
Hope your weekend is a blast!
Candice