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Submitted by jenniferlynn on Mon, 10/01/2007 - 6:31pm

Do any of you have an ex that lies to the kids? C just told me that the harpi told him I was a witch. Like a real witch. Like I cook kids in my pot and cast spells. Thank god C is smart. He told me because he said he thinks she is not telling the truth. He said it is not right to tell stories about people, even if it is his mom. C is almost 6. I get along with the kids very well, but this is not the first time she has tried to turn them on me. I think it drives her crazy that we get along so well. Now, N is only 3 1/2. Do you think it could work with her? It hasn't so far, she said she thought mommy was kidding. Could it work with C and N? I love thoes kids so much. What do you do? How do you fix this? Will she get it to work?

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Submitted by Chocoholic on Mon, 10/01/2007 - 6:56pm

They all lie all the time! I think they are all members of the insane psycho bitch club.... what I don't get is how on earth they can't see that the only ones they are hurting are the kids! Do they really think that we care what they think of us? PLEASE!
My sks bb is the same... she can't stand that 'her' kids love me so she tries to make them hate me... fortunately it doesn't work and bb just looks like an ass.

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Submitted by kysmom on Tue, 10/02/2007 - 9:55am

YES - YES - YES - YES
I have not had the pleasure of having the opportunity to cook children in my stew but I have been accused of having a broom instead of a mini van.
It it my beleif that jealousy is 100% of the reason for all the lies.
I have started to be a smart a** about it and playing into the bm's lies to the children. The girls get a kick out of it & it down plays the whole intention of the lie.
Per the counsolor that we are seeing, the bm's lies are having no effect on the children (3 & 7). Evidently the children cancel out the lie they were told when my actions or their bf's actions disprove what they are being told.
I guess that makes sense, but I still beleive she's doing major damage to the girls. But you can't make anyone stop lieing.

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Submitted by kathleen on Tue, 10/02/2007 - 10:04am

It might be interesting if you emailed her. Like this:

Hey BM,

The strangest thing happened last night. C said you told him I was a witch, like a real witch. Do you have any idea what that is all about?

Jenniferlyn

I just think it would be hilarious to hear what she says.