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Submitted by lmdavi0 on Wed, 06/27/2007 - 12:51pm

because we haven't even gotten to see sd for three weeks now, so nothing to bitch about...i know that sounds strange but we miss sd!!! and if i have to put up with crazy bb drama in order to even see my sd, then so be it. i've been logging on here day after day with nothing to say. this coming weekend is our visitation so we'll see if bb even shows up. dh hasn't spoken with sd since last week and that was for three minutes! i did print off some phone records though, so when our court date comes, we can have some sort of proof. it's just so sad. and i still haven't called bb. should i? i was thinking about this email communication thing and i am going to have dh ask the judge if they can just communicate that way. we'll see...but i'm sure she will have some sort of problem with that as well. so nothing to post really, just bored, and feeling kinda helpless.
hope you all are having a grrrreat day.
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Submitted by evilsm on Wed, 06/27/2007 - 1:17pm

I'm sorry you feel left out...do you want some of my problems for a while? Wink I am more than happy to share. Biggrin

~Evil

Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall.
Confucius

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Submitted by lmdavi0 on Wed, 06/27/2007 - 1:31pm

i'm up for some false allegations, restraining orders, and harrassment, personally. so if you have any of those, pass 'em this way!
Smile
i know it's weird to say i 'feel left out' but at least you all get to see your skids. my sd has just undergone three weeks of brainwashing, and there's no tellin' what will be left of her come this weekend. it's just sad. she keeps getting more and more reclusive and quiet. and i don't know what i should say or not say, and neither does dh. he gives her too much credit for thinking on her own...how much credit should a 10-year-old be given? i'm serious. i don't have kids...but then it seems like no matter what i say, bb always finds out and it's always drama. it's like a lose-lose situation. but that doesn't take away the fact that i miss seeing her cute little face...

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Submitted by evilsm on Wed, 06/27/2007 - 1:55pm

Completely. My SD has gone back and forth with liking us/not liking us etc. My DH (dumb husband this time) refuses counseling for her because she doesn't want it. She is only 11 and the last time I checked we are the adults and the ones that should be making decisions for our children, guess I missed an update somewhere on that lol. My SD is spending some time with her BM this summer so I am sure I will have lots to post about. Not to mention my fellon SS getting out of prison today. (read my other blog) So what ever you would like to take over for me you are welcome to!

~Evil

Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall.
Confucius

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Submitted by Anne 8102 on Thu, 06/28/2007 - 5:51am

So I get the part about missing them. Every now and then I get an email and it gets me fired up, their dad talks to them on the phone once a week or so and that's nice. Even getting their new school pictures a few weeks ago just made my day. I wish we lived closer. I wish their mother hadn't run us out of their lives. I wish a lot of things.

About the email thing... I highly recommend it. That's how we do EVERYTHING with BM. DH will either email her or dictate while I type. Sometimes I'll do a rough draft and he'll edit it, then send it. It's the best evidence. It saved our asses regarding CS. She sued him, claiming that he never paid and was $20k behind. We produced an email that she sent AFTER she filed the lawsuit that stated, "I really appreciate the way you've always been so good about paying the child support. You've never been one of those dead-beat dads and I know you'd do anything to support your kids." Not much of a lawsuit when the judge saw that. It also helped us show her denial of visitation and refusal to send doctor bills and info about the kids. Also, being that she was using the phone to harrass us, we were able to get the judge to actually ORDER email communication. It's much better than hearing her voice.

~ Anne ~

"Perseverance is not a long race; it is many short races one after the other." -Walter Elliot