Anne asked for an update on someone else's blog where I had responded. I began to type one out, then realized that it was so long I'd best just post a blog of my own. So, without further ado -

We went out of town on business this past weekend and BM found out. She called BF's store to ask if he wanted SS that weekend, and was informed that he was out of town. She called back about a dozen times leaving messages raising caine about how if he's going to be out of town, she NEEDS a contact number where he's going to be in case of emergency with their son, especially considering his "medical issues", blah blah. Every time he's unreachable, she freaks out and all of a sudden everything's an emergency. We got everything from "I'll be taking this to court" to "you're not a father, you're a nobody, you don't care about your son," to "you're too busy playing around with your tramp in (city name) to be a father to MY son." All this just one week after she disappeared with his son and told no one where she was or how to get a hold of her... What's even funnier is that if she really needed to get a hold of him, she could just email him with pertinent information - but she never does, it's always "You need to call me RIGHT NOW about SS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This doesn't need to wait until you decide to get back to your store, I need the call NOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11111111#$* (@*#%$" - which he got plenty of this weekend. If it was so important, why can't she just include some details in the email instead of trying to force him to disclose his location and number, especially considering she knows he reads them no matter where he is or she wouldn't be sending them? Oh yeah, because she needs control and the ability to harrass him whenever she wants, no matter where he is.

So then, the next day, she offers him an extra day this weekend with his son. She says she's trying to make up for lost time. WTF? This woman is so unstable it's almost embarrassing. One minute she's saying he's not a father and doesn't care about his son, and the next she's offering extra time with SS over the weekend. Her own self-proclaimed "best friend" can't even stand her anymore. I get emails from him daily about how unstable she is and how he's trying to talk sense into her but she just won't listen. Don't worry, he never relays any messages from her and I don't consider him talking to me a violation of the RO.

So to answer Anne's question, which was if things are any calmer, I'd have to say yes and no. Yes, because I'm not plagued day in and day out by dozens of her emails, voice messages, and notes at work saying she called. But no, because now that she can't harrass me, she's turned it up on BF.