i wish someone would kick my SD's ass
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satan's baby whined and weaseled out of sleeping over again for her court ordered weekend. this is the regular routine EOW, don't even know why they bother any more.
my fiancé mercifully took her to his brother's for the day so she could see her cousin. means I didn't have to see her face this weekend.
Shes 13 almost 14. Court
Shes 13 almost 14.
Court ruled she had no say in visitation until 18 but her mother refuses to force her to come. Fiance doesnt have the energy for a court battle to enforce it and is at a point where he doesnt care. Breaks my heart that his daughter treats him this way when hes always done right by her and her mother.
Faceing the same thing with
Faceing the same thing with my son at age 14 I wrote my ex and told her that he would no longer be required to accompany his younger brother when I appeared to pick up the younger one for weekend visitation.
I then stopped all communication with the older boy. No holiday/birthday cards even. Communication was zero. Ten years later the older boy sent a message saying he wanted to re-establish contact and I agreed. Although I don't like the man this boy turned out to be (exactly like his mother and step-father) I respond when contacted and treat him with respect as if he was equal in my eyes to his younger brother.
With a ex actively working on (in my case) a Mama's Boy there was no point in beating my head against the wall and experiencing the constant rejection. Funny thing with the younger boy he never bought into his mothers lies and later when he was an adult I asked him why is response was a simple "it was more fun being with you".
I know there is more to it as the older Mama's boy was noticeably the favorite of their mother and by then the step-father had run out of credibility by never following through on his promises of doing things with and for the kids.
By the way kicking some ass
By the way kicking some ass is what the last two generations sorely needs.
The adult commercial world has no problem doing it, not literally of course, but a few swats now would save a lot of kids from a lifetime of feeling entitled and never understanding why they're such failures when they can't figure out how to properly dress for work and be on time.