I'd be extremely interested in seeing a study that gives actual percentages of men who sabotage birth control vs women who sabotage birth control. My guess is that it won't fall in favor of women.

When i was y oung and dumb i was dating a guy that i thought hes the one :sick: .... he would hide my pills and i was smart enough to get the morning after pills when i knew i hadnt taken my pills when i couldnt find them. When i started to question what he was doing ( i had no proof) i changed BC to the Nuva Ring so i knew where it was at all times. and didnt tell him i had. shortly after that things did change and i left. It wasnt easy to get away though but i did. best thing i ever did and i was SOOOO glad i never had a child with that douche.
as for my DH now he was tricked by BM. She swore she had been taking hers but once her Best Friend got pregnant she felt the need to do so so they could raise babies together.... :sick:

Honestly? If you are sexually active and do not personally want a child, it is YOUR responsibility to make sure you are protected. No one else's. Even in what you think is a committed relationship. If you're too stupid to do so (or believe someone else telling you they're taking care of it)? Then you shouldn't be having sex and/or (b) get what you deserve.

Both of my kids know this (one of each). Oldest knows to wear a condom. Youngest is on BC, but also makes her partner wear a condom. Period. End of story.

Sorry, but no sympathy.