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BM sent picture of herself to SS on DH's phone. UGH!

MommaSaSa's picture

I was already in a bad mood, but then I saw a picture BM sent to my DH's phone intended for my SS10. It's BM posing with a transformer from the movie. Am I just being petty, or am I justified in saying do NOT send pictures of yourself to my husband's phone! Stupid.

She sent a bunch of pictures to my husband before from when they were dating. No pictures of them together, but it was just like WTF. I told her that I was not okay with that and not to send him memoribilia like that ever again. BM's dad (my SS grandpa) sends pictures of BM to my phone for SS too. I don't want to see that on my phone!! He's really nice, but really? It's so annoying to me!

MommaSaSa's picture

The cell phone pic- I didn't say anything to her. That's why I came on here to vent that it bugged.

SMof2Girls's picture

Is there a way to disable picture texts? Some carriers charge more for them and may have a way to block them altogether.

MommaSaSa's picture

THANK YOU! Her and I aren't drama, so it's not her just trying to mess with me. I think she's not very smart, and then she did lots-o-meth so she's even dumber, and then I'm sure she thought it was a good picture of her (but DH said she looked like shit, even though I thought it was a cute pic), so I kinda felt it inappropriate to be sent to my husband since she usually always texts and calls my phone for my SS. Aaaand my SS has an email she can send it to.

Juustttt aaaaaannnnnnoooooyinnng. Can't she go away already!!?
Thanks for making me feel better.

oldone's picture

Why don't you send her a picture of you and DH cuddling or kissing every time she pulls this crap. Don't say a word. Just send pictures back.

OutdoorMommy's picture

This is hilarious! What a great idea! When my ex sends me stupid texts, I have one that I saved, and I send that one every time as my response. It puts a smile on my face and I can usually avid getting another stupid text from him. lol It's not rude, just "I'm busy, leave me alone. P.S. I don't have your stupid fishing pole." It's a long story, but he keeps saying that I have one of his fishing poles. haha

GoodbyeNormaJean's picture

If the kid isn't old enough for a cell phone, he doesn't need to be getting digital pictures. They can make a hard copy of it for him and give it to him in person, or email them, or something, but seriously!

soon2bestepmum's picture

I find that really odd, and hilarious at the same time. It would never occur to me to send pics of myself to my ex's phone. My BM is weird, but not THAT weird. I would just ignore it. Do not give her the satisfaction of letting her know it bothers you. She's probably hoping to get a rise out of you.