Hi everyone! I have talked about my situation in other posts but so you don’t have to go back, I’ll just give you the quick version- been with my fiancé 2 years, living together 1 year, supposed to get married this April but we have been having some major issues. SD4 is with us every other week for the full week & fiancé has major guilty daddy syndrome which I have discussed in other posts. Anyway, things have been really bad lately; I stayed at my mom’s a couple nights and have been thinking about calling off the engagement and getting my own place. I don’t want to live this way anymore. We have been to counseling (2 sessions so far, going again on Friday). The counselor gave us suggestions on things to try. I have tried everything and he has done nothing. For example, the counselor said he needs to make more couple time when SD is there and it shouldn’t be like “her week” & then “my week.” Right now we have NO couple time on “her weeks” because I guess he is trying to make up for the time she is not around by making it all about her when she is there. I’m completely miserable. Now for the reason why I am still here- the weeks SD is not there are perfect! We never fight (only when she is there), we have a great time, we go out & do things, we cuddle, it’s actually a great relationship and that is what I have been holding onto. He doesn’t even have bad intentions- he thinks he’s a great dad! In reality, he is raising a spoiled brat and ruining his relationship with me in the process. I seriously am at a loss right now. I just don’t know what to do. I have also tried disengaging but it didn’t really work because he doesn’t care if I am around or not when SD is there- he only cares about doing fun things with her all week. I feel like I have done above and beyond to fix this relationship and nothing has worked. What have you all done in this type of situation when you are at the end of your rope?