My daughter went to see her father on June 12th, our original agreement was we would split summer 6 weeks a piece. There are only 9 weeks in the summer. Since this is the first year my daughter hasn’t seen much of her father I said her can still have his six weeks. Before she went my ex and I talked about how long she would stay and we agreed to 6 weeks. He said he was going on vacation the 22nd through the 30th and we agreed we would meet back up on the 31st for her to come home. On Saturday I asked for some pictures of Alyssa on the beach he then informed me that they weren’t on vacation that vacation was the 30th through the 3rd. So I told him that those date were not appropriate and that I had made my plans around his. She needs to get back into her schedule and structured. Apparently he told our daughter that I was making her come home and she is now begging him to ask me to let her stay longer. When I said that telling our daughter was inappropriate, she shouldn’t be brought into an adult conversation. All she needs to know is if she’s staying or coming, if he had taken his parenting class he would know this. He turned it around and said his mother told her that. I begged him not to bring his mother into this because we both know what she's capable of which is twisting the minds of little children, she didn’t even take care of her own children. My question is: In the state of TN, how many days does a child have to be returned to the primary parent before the start of the school year? I know in Michigan the Law states 2 days after school starts and 5 days before school starts are not days to count as summer vacation! Also he owes me a total of $1930 in outstanding Child support. I hope can help me here.