OK guys....get ready for this one...yes this is what I deal with.

So apparently SD15 has been given permission by my husband (and her bio-mom....WTF!!!!) to throw an end of the school year party at my house.

I found this out through one of her friend's moms who called the house...she wanted to know the address and I asked why? She goes on to tell me that she is dropping her daughter off for the night that weekend and wanted to see where she would be staying. I assumed it was just an overnight sleepover but throughout the conversation I she told me it was a PARTY. About 50 people are attending, she told me.

Here's another catch....it's on the weekend of June 18th....I have an important business trip to Seattle to attend that weekend.

My husband says, 'It's our weekend, you've agreed to let us have weekends on our own and this is what she wanted to do." Well when the house is in my name this planning does include me, like it or not.

I asked SD, she puts on this innocent act and tells me, 'Well mom said I could.' I contacted this bitches mom and you know what she said (her exact words!!)?? "She deserves to enjoy a weekend or two out of the month there. Maybe you need to get over yourself and start acting like a stepmom to my daughter" UM EXCUSE ME? :jawdrop:

OK....I don't mind helping out with throwing a party for her. But this whole thing just SMACKS of complete and utter disrespect by not asking or INCLUDING me in this type of plan. I need to be able to set the house up so it's appropriatedly armed for a party of a bunch of high school students. If she had asked me I might have been all over throwing something fun, I'm GOOD at party planning. Now I don't even want it to happen BECAUSE of the way they have gone about it.

This is the SD that dropped a turd on my bathroom floor some time ago, and leaves dirty underwear and tampons on the bathroom floor and in her room. So really, leaving the house to 50 potentially like minded people shudders the hell out of me, and I have visions of the house covered in their dirties!!! :sick:

I want to put a stop to this. She sent out the invites already. I don't trust her with my house cause for one, she's disgusting. Two she didn't trust me enough to ask if she could have a party so YTF should I trust her??

WTF do I do at this point?? Hubby hasn't heard the end of it but I'm not getting through to him, even sleeping on the couch he's not doing jack ("Well you'll be away that weekend anyways"). Someone PLEASE give me a way to shock them out of this!!