I have to wear a dressing gown all the time. With your own kids it is ok to nip downstairs in your nightie.

I hate having to wear a bra even in my pj's.

i never wore clothes to bed whether the kids were home or not! }:)

what annoyed me the MOST was when MY PERSONAL ITEMS were used. i ended up taking all my shower $#!t and putting it in a caddy stashed in my bedroom, along with my bathtowel. this got a bit better after we moved to a place where the master has it's own bathroom, but kaos would still badger dh to shower in MY EFFING SHOWER - nope, sorry kid.

the final straw was my personal pink comb. for the umpteenth time i saw it in his possession, i told him "keep your hands off of stuff that doesn't belong to you. you REALLY have no idea what it could be used on...." not two weeks later, i saw it in his room. i grabbed it, marched right up to him and asked what it was doing on his bed. he started with excuses, then i cut him off and very clearly informed him of that particular comb's function in my personal care. he never touched it again..... }:) }:) }:) }:) }:) }:) }:) }:)

I hated wearing a bra when SS and his endless amount of friends were around.

That's why I wear the dressing gown/robe. I dont want jiggly bits being seen. The skids were always staring.

I guess the minor annoyance was just the preponderance of extra stuff..mess... naturally created when there were an extra two people in the house.

Oh and the half drunk water bottles..

All you guys and your bras! My mother didn't even put a bra on when she first met SO.

In fact she yelled out the window "Do I need to put a bra on for this?"

Yeah ma. This is a bra-on occasion.

Didn't matter.

I hate that SS27 doesn't knock before he comes in. Actually, he does knock and then just comes right in anyway, pretty much negating the knock. DH gets all butthurt when I say anything about it, so I don't anymore, but one of these days SS is going to catch me in my underwear and I'm going to be pissed. I'll see what DH has to say about it then.

SS using my washer and dryer. He does it most of the time when I'm not home so it's not big deal but DH always dumps whatever is in the dryer of ours on the couch and it just sits there till I fold it (more of a DH problem I know, but if SS did not use the machines, my loads could stay in there as long as I want).

We have a long driveway that fits 3 cars behind each other and SS parks his at the top and rarely uses it because he has a motorcycle. But when he needs it or has to put it back in the driveway after using it, DH and I have to move our cars, and it's always just a bad coincidence that SS asks at the Mose inopportune times, it NEVER fails.

That all my food gets eaten on weekends when my SSs are with us, even things I bought specifically for myself..even more annoying when one of them decides they want to "try" something I bought for myself, tries it, realizes they don't like it, and then either leaves it sitting there half eaten or throws it out.

They no longer come over, and you'll see why. They analyze and count every photo in the house of any person; they scrutinize all your furnishings, they question your husband about both of these...why, why and why? They have issues with anything you own, anything you do, anything you cook, any present you give them, anything you say, anything you do not say, anyway you look, anyway your house looks, anything on your walls, or your floors...you get it--- anything. And, after their visit they brief DH on all they hurt feelings ad nauseum, and how they do not like anything, and anything-- about you. Every visit is predictable. It's ALL the little things that add up.

Not anymore.....No more of their hatred and jealousy in of my home. :-).

Princess walking around in her gstring and crop top..... funny enough only if there was visitors...

Eventually only SO's brother's would stop by, but that stopped as well... SO asked why and they simply said, we do not want to see your 15 year old daughter parading her good.... SO talked to her and she said, oh please they need to grow up we are family..

Messy not cleaned house,

SO always not finding his keys

The baby voice when Princess wants something...

Not knocking and simply walking into our room like it was hers

I can go on and on...

Submitted by wineisthecure on Mon, 02/19/2018 - 7:39pm.
"I have to look at his smug little face and can't slap it"

Oh yes I can identify!! When my SDs used to come over EOW (glory be for the "used to"!) they used to secrete filthy knickers and used sanitary pads in their room and I used to find them after they'd gone - lovely. :sick:

They used to leave all appliances, lights, TV, computer etc on in their room and go out. I used to go in there after they'd gone and turn everything off. SD21 tried to get me in trouble once with her Dad for turning off the computer while she was out, because she'd been in the middle of a game! I was unrepentant and said I would continue to do exactly the same. When she's paying the electricity bill, THEN she can leave everything on, not before.

Taking them to the doctors to find out "someone" (wonder who....) has taken me off the approved list again... So DH has to call and say I'm not some crazy woman coming in with a sick kid... Though I don't even get that... The kid is sick, I have her medical card, and I'm willing to pay to get the kid healthy... So why won't you just look at her??? Same thing with check-outs. I suspiciously have a tendency to vanish off the approved list. Except at daycare... Where the daycare won't let BM take the kid due to past incidents...

The constant staring! SS8 will just sit and stare at you, it's creepy! Especially if DH and I stop to kiss or embrace and he's a few feet away just staring at us, ugh.

Also, SS has serious personal space issues and follows DH around everywhere and gets up in his face constantly. He does it so much it even annoys me! Especially when he's waiting outside the bathroom door for DH to come out, like give the guy some space already, geez. Luckily he doesn't do that with me.

Oh, and having to eat with him. I enjoy cooking family dinners and sitting at the dinner table about 3 or more times a week. Unfortunately at least 2 of those times SS is also there and his table manners are terrible and even worse I have "misophonia" and the smacking of the food literally drives me insane!

Yours is similar to mine. We always sleep with our door wide open for air circulation. Old house - doesn't get good air in every room.

When skids are over, we close the door and I always wake up sweaty. Boo.

Also hate changing TV habits and other rhythms of life when they're there...in general. Can't think of a specific instance at this moment, but I know I will.

Also hate when my SD ignores me and thoughtlessly chases a feral cat into the crawlspace / into our walls.

DFTT - Same here! I have to wear clothes to bed. I have been sleeping naked since a teen but the dog needs to get in and out of our room so we leave it cracked. Sometimes it's mostly closed and sometimes he pushes fully open.

Other one - SS15 using my bathroom products. Even after telling him he just thought well if its in the bathroom and/or shower its open to all. Unfortunately we only have one bathroom so those expensive scrubs, lotions, etc have to go in and out of the bathroom with me. I keep them hidden in my bedroom.

We went out with YSD and SIL yesterday and they talked about farts and burping the whole time. My family never talks about stuff like that. I can never get used to this but oh well. Both YSD and SIL are lovely women, just not lady like. Very foreign for me

Being stared at all. The. Time. The skids would just stand there and stare. When I'd ask if they wanted something...they'd just STARE. Freakin' creepy as hell.

Also, YSS using the undersides of my couch cushions as his personal booger receptacle.

Those are kind of beyond minor annoyances, but still.