OT: From the thong blog- Do you wear lingerie/sexy clothes for SO

I think this topic came up in the thong blog...

Do you were lingerie for your SO? Do you wear sexy clothes for your SO? Do you wear sexy under garments for SO? If you know you are going to be having sex, do you put on something special?

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Same exact here! When we have

Same exact here! When we have a date night I will wear something "sexy" because usually I am in cotton undies so wearing something "sexy" makes me feel more sexier.

DH is pumped if he comes to

DH is pumped if he comes to bed and I'm naked as opposed to my joggers and tank top

He's never asked me to, but

He's never asked me to, but he's appreciated it when I have.

If I'm going to wear something like that, it's for me, not for him - it's gratifying for ME when I see the look in his eyes

I remember once, before DH and I were married, but living together.... we were outside having a good time, drinking a few and decided we were going to take the party into the bedroom So I wanted to change into something sexy. DH had gotten me a VS gift card and I had bought a nice matching bra and panty set so I wanted to change into it for him... So I go to put it on and can't find the underwear. Here's the thing... I had JUST purchased it the day before and I was 100% positive that I had put it away.

MSD had been over earlier that day with DH (I was gone) and I had already suspected she was stealing stuff from me. So I was pretty positive that she had stolen my underwear! Ugggghhh I was soooooooo mad! Totally killed the mood.

white or skin color

white or skin color cotton.... nothing else...

no lace no fancy shit, it makes me itch and remember on Mars you sweat allot

lol...... skin color

lol...... skin color cotton.....

that could be anything....

crayola's definition of "skin color" is a pack of 8 crayons named: black, sepia, peach, apricot, white, tan, mahogany, and burnt sienna

haha no not that, more like

haha no not that, more like the color of your skin..... you can wear it under white and nothing shines through

yes boring I know

I know what you meant, I was

I know what you meant, I was just bugging you. }:) }:)

hahaha well skin color could

hahaha well skin color could also be pure skin ya know }:)

Haha! SO is the same. He just

Haha! SO is the same. He just wants me naked. When we first started dating this local store was having a bra and panties sale so I bought several sets. He couldn't care less. I put one on and he didn't even look at it, he just took it off. I do wish he would take more time with foreplay, though. Oh well, can't have perfection!

Lacking foreplay- we are in

Lacking foreplay- we are in the same boat/rut.

I don't know if it's the

I don't know if it's the smaller house or what, but we just don't seem to have enough time/space for foreplay. I never considered that aspect. Although, no kids were home the other day and we knew they wouldn't just walk in so we actually got busy in the living room. It feels like we used to do that all the time but I don't know how since the skids were still coming over then!

I guess in the beginning you

I guess in the beginning you are exploring each other more???? Everything is so new and fresh... we still have times like that but not as much... not compared to the straight to the quickies. LOL.

True. Not to mention the fact

True. Not to mention the fact that we are just both getting older!

Ladies, I can highly

Ladies, I can highly recommend getting your men to watch a guy on the internet called Jason Julius. He's a foreplay guru, I swear to god he was a woman in a previous life, he knows so much about women.

Getting them into watching Jason's tutorials is like giving your hubbys a new set of tools and they can't wait to try them out. There's free tutorials on line and he has a group of tutorials. All are excellent but check out his free stuff.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qi-t4tQRmA4

He likes me to wear one of

He likes me to wear one of his white cotton t-shirt and nothing else.

Trollin YOU are killing me

Trollin YOU are killing me today BAHHHHHHH

Nope...I tried it early on

Nope...I tried it early on and he commented something about BM never doing anything like that at all for him. I wore sexy nighties and things a few times but he said it wasn't a huge thing for him. He would much rather come to bed and find me wearing nothing rather than some complicated get up he has to work around.