Don't Worry About Ann- She's Different Than the Rest of Us

Ann is putting her 9-year-old in therapy after he started making comments like, "I don't belong on this planet" and "I should've just killed myself years ago." Ya think, Ann?? I feel so bad for this poor little boy. His father is barely in his life, and now his mother is so wrapped up in "her" new kids that he feels like there's no place for him.

The therapy she's putting him in? Reiki. I would never put down alternative medicine. There are a lot of different things that work great for different people. But your child is making suicidal comments and you're putting him in REIKI? I recommended several different psychotherapists in the area to Ann, ones who work specifically with children and teens and who specialize in family issues. But no! "We don't practice Western medicine. I didn't vaccinate him, he sees a homeopath, so Reiki is what will work for him."

:jawdrop: :jawdrop: :jawdrop:

Okay.

She finishes telling me this this morning, then suddenly she's all happy, pulling out her phone to show me video she shot of Sailor Talk Mary at her soccer game, body checking another child and knocking her to the ground. She thought that was just the BEST! Such SPIRIT! She did it twice, and the coach pulled her out and gave her a warning. Do you think Hot Tommy said anything? Come on, you KNOW the answer to that. "We don't want to break her spirit," said Nanny Ann. "OMG, she's JUST LIKE ME!" Okay, so let her keep being "spirited" and bullying other kids, including YOUR SON. "Oh, she's not a bully. She's high energy."

Ann and Tom were SO impressed with Mary's "spirit" that they went home and made a video to music with the footage from the soccer game, to the song "Let the Bodies Hit the Floor." She said she and Tom and the kids watched that video over and over, Ann and the kids dancing and singing along, Tom laughing his ass off.

These people are sick. But don't worry about all those big red flags waving around Ann's face. What she and Tom have is special and different, and they're already "established" as a family. The kids ADORE her like a mother figure, and that couldn't possibly change, right?

I don't know if Chris was present that night or not, because all Ann talked about was Mary and how spirited she is, and how cute little Luke was dancing. Of course she didn't mention Chris! I hope Chris goes to live with his father.

Just a vent. What is WRONG with these people?

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Oh, I have. She won't listen.

Oh, I have. She won't listen. Ann does what Ann wants, and that's that. She's probably the most stubborn person I've ever met.

seems like Ann found what she

seems like Ann found what she was looking for.....

give me her number, I will call her and tell her, listen up Nanny - you are busy killing your own son, why not ship him off to his father or to Mars, I will take care of this kid....

I truly hope the Karma bus hits Ann full on, reverse and do it again...

Shit, I've got an empty nest

Shit, I've got an empty nest and a four bedroom house. If she wants to give up her baggage for her new and improved family, I'll take him.

Maybe suggest to her that you

Maybe suggest to her that you will take him for the week-end... pretend you want to help out lol

but this kid still can be saved

Ann sounds like a big ol' bag

Ann sounds like a big ol' bag of nuts. Her son deserves better than this. Ann's in for a rude awakening here shortly...

Of course she is. Hottie must

Of course she is. Hottie must have a wand of silver.

I no longer care about Ann. Chris is my only concern in this mess.

My sentiments as well. Ann

My sentiments as well. Ann is digging her own grave and she can lie in it. Chris, however, is deserving of better. Ann makes me sick. :sick:

My sentiments as well. Ann

My sentiments as well. Ann is digging her own grave and she can lie in it. Chris, however, is deserving of better. Ann makes me sick. :sick:

I will join you with the

I will join you with the hitting....... just for safety reasons to make sure you 2 did not stuff it up

Ann

Ann :sick:

Oh, it'll all be A-OK! She

Oh, it'll all be A-OK! She and Hottie are planning ANOTHER "family" vacation to an amusement park for a long weekend. That'll make everything all better. I guess Ann likes paying for vacations for her new family but not therapy for her kid. You know Tommy isn't paying. He doesn't work!

Ok, now I hate Ann. She's

Ok, now I hate Ann. She's horrible. It's not the man influencing her, she's just horrible all on her own.

Man I want to slap that

Man I want to slap that woman. That poor kid. Where is his dad, maybe someone should contact him.

the voice of reason...... I

the voice of reason...... I would so do this...

maybe Ann never allowed the father to be involved....

I know the dad- his name,

I know the dad- his name, where he lives, where he works. A phone call just might be in order...I really do like that idea.

Or a call to child protective

Or a call to child protective services that the child is making remarks about suicide. In this area at a very minimum that will get a visit. If at the visit the child repeats the remarks, or the worker suspects the child has made the remarks and is now denying, a visit to a counselor will be required.

I'd start with the dad first if he can be reached and will do the responsible thing.

^^^This^^^ I would point

^^^This^^^

I would point blank tell her you don't want to hear it. It's a trainwreck in the making and less you know about the situation the less incriminating evidence you'll have on her when Chris goes off the deep end and hurts himself.

Seriously. My very thin filter on my mouth would have dissolved by now.

Oh this poor kid. He must

Oh this poor kid. He must really be feeling displaced. How can a mother actually sit back and let her kid suffer like that. So she says she is getting him treatment, what good will it do when ANN won't change her behavior. She is so busy impressing Tom and his silver wand and his spawn she is neglecting this kid.

Makes my heart hurt.

Sadly we can all see where this is heading. Ann is going to be bashed upside the head with the Reality bus called StepHell. It may not be next week or even next year but it will happen. Eventually the new shiny penny will lose its shine and those kids and Tom will have emotionally beaten her to a pulp. Then poor Chris will not only have been left behind but have even less of a mother to care for him because she will be too busy trying to "be the perfect SM" or too damaged to take care of anyone.

REIKI?!?! I want to give

REIKI?!?! I want to give Nanny Ann a Flying Five Fist Monkey C**t Punch.

Poor Chris!!! Is going to live with his father an option?? Obviously, this child needs a parent who seriously considers HIS needs. Ann is delusional and has become crap mother to her son. I wonder if CPS would consider Reiki acceptable treatment for a child whose beginning to sound suicidal.

I have to be honest and say that I'd find this situation intolerable and would HAVE to say something to Ann. I'd write it all down to refine my points and then let her have it. Ann can suck it. At first, I felt sorry for her and those ginormous rose-colored glasses that were bound to get knocked off of her face. I no longer feel sorry for her. She's neglecting her son in favor of STM and the daughter she always wanted. She deserves a nice taste of Step Hell.

She didn't vaccinate. She

She didn't vaccinate.

She doesn't "practice" Western medicine.

She is a fan of Reiki?

Your friend Ann is an idiot of the highest magnitude.

Is there anyone who can put a bug in dad's ear about poor Chris? He needs to get out of there before the bodies really do hit the floor.