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BSgoinon's picture

Then I can go home and start getting ready for our EARLY AS F*CK flight to New York.

BM has been quite since she FINALLY sent the letter of consent yesterday afternoon. Not before "reprimanding" DH for telling SS that she threatened to with hold his trip unless he called her. She told SS to call her at 7:30 last night. He didn't. I refuse to force him in to anything with her, so we just let it go. He knew what he was doing. I don't know if he will ever want to speak to her again.

Some of you were debating about my comment to him saying that there will come a day when he will want to make sure she is ok. You guys have to remember, I KNOW THIS BOY. I know him better than anyone. I spend more time with him than anyone on this earth. He has a sweet and pure heart. And I know, that there WILL be a day when he wants to make sure she is ok. Right now, I just need him to know that it's ok that TODAY is not that day. And if that day never comes, that's ok too. She has destroyed all trust there.

So, when DH and I were talking to him last night DH asks him "when you told BS that you weren't stupid and you know what she is up to, what exactly did you mean? What do you think she is up to?". SS said "well, I caught her a few times smoking weed, but I know that it is WAY more than that. I think it's probably meth but I don't really know. I do know that it is drugs, and bad ones. DH said "what makes you think meth?". SS says, because I've seen Breaking Bad, and she looks and acts just like that one lady on there that always wants root beer. (that woman is a meth addicted prostitute for those of you that aren't familiar with the show). So DH said, what would you think if I told you that you are completely correct. SS said- I would believe you. I am mad at her, I don't want to talk to her right now. - Ok kiddo, you don't have to.

Needless to say, I am SOOOO ready for this trip. And we will have a house sitter. I don't trust this chick ONE BIT!

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WalkOnBy's picture

Yay BS and Mr. BS!! I am so glad you had this conversation with him. Now he knows the facts, and that all of you are on the same page!

Good job!!!

Have a great time in NY and don't give that stupid meth whore another thought Smile

BSgoinon's picture

It is in the CO that any travel out of state requires written consent from the other parent. It's right next to where it states that anyone driving with him in the car must be insured. And we have used that one against her. So....

Had she not sent the letter, we would have gone anyway. There is a slight chance she would have gone to the police and TRIED to do something, but I was told by my sheriff friend that they would have just asked her for DH's phone number, called him and when they heard him say "we are on vacation, and she KNOWS that", they would have referred her to family court and not wasted any more time. Especially since she is very OBVIOUSLY a meth head. They would be able to see it all over her face, and teeth, and arms... and... well you get what I am saying.

justanothergurlNJ's picture

Ask for a TASK eval. She comes up dirty maybe the courts will send to rehab.

Tuff Noogies's picture

i wouldnt even bother with that, given how she has on several occasions discussed IN WRITING her addiction.

plus, meth is metabolized very quickly by the body. it's hard to catch unless it's within a day or two of use. even two to four days is questionable.