Just curious but which app deletes all messages from all apps?

As for your situation, my advice would be to disengage and allow to happen what will naturally happen. Don't involve yourself and don't worry more about the kid than he does. I'm sure she'll turn out great! }:)

Also I'm not sure why you view it as "he loves DD more than me" because the love he has for you should be totally different than the love he has for DD. He loves DD like a daughter, and you like a wife. Don't compare yourself to skid.

SD13 is doing the same thing. I found most of it and her pparents agreed to ban her from Facebook. BM2 won't because it's her "therapy". BM2 recently found her instagram where she's skyping with men and "in love" blah blah. BM2 wanted to ground her by taking her to the movies. Her reasoning was she didn't want to punish everyone else...she is the only other person...I told SO I don't care anymore and if she gets pregnant I won't support her and if she gets kidnapped he and BM2 can go search the woods on their own.

I hate steplife.
If this were my kid things would be so different and I'd have some control of the punishment and follow through.

BM2 is probably proud that her daughter is becoming a skank. Condoms are in the bathroom and I'll get her birth control. Fuck it.

Wow. Just wow.

In my situation BM has control of the skids phones and won't put any parameters on them "because we don't have that kind of problem" after DH offered to set up some things. She thinks he's just trying to wrest control of the phones away.

We are trying to protect teens from things that seem safe but aren't. For example, my own DS jailbroke his phone while at a friend's house since the friend showed him this "cool thing you can get on your phone if you only do this-this-and-this." It took me pulling up the apps he loaded and showing him the help screen where it said "now that you have jailbroken your phone" right in the explanation.

I'm the mean one according to DS as I have controls on his phone. Discussed it with both ExH and DH first. Both agreed. I don't check much and it's really boring...which is GREAT. It means I can check a bit more randomly, but I still check and I still pay attention.

I cannot believe your DH is in such denial. Did he think it was YOUR phone? (ha, ha, ha, cry, cry, cry)

The only other thing you should prepare for, and you'll prepare for it differently depending on whether you own the house outright or jointly and based on your own situation: what you're going to do/say when she's pregnant? Or when she runs away? Or when she's abducted? Or when her picture is all over with internet with strangers? Will she be allowed to live with you anymore? Will you move out? Are you going to try a last-ditch effort and talk to DH about getting her birth control?

This is NOT GOOD. I cannot believe his reaction.

I am old enough to not put up with that crap. I wonder what Nancy Grace would do if this girl ever goes missing or is gang raped?

If I was in your shoes I would be plotting my escape now. I would not like to be in the middle of that shit-storm when it explodes. In fact I would be calling the local cops and reporting her for broadcasting child porn. Because that is EXACTLY what she is doing. And the silly little thing isn't even getting paid.

I thought I would get some negative comments for what I said. Seems like it's normal for teenage girls to act like this and the parents to ignore it.

When I vent to my family I just aay at least I'm learning what not to do for my children. Although I kind of thought it was common for parents to at least react to this type of behavior.

I just don't get it. I thought we were supposed to teach them right from wrong and protect them, even from themselves.

When I first caught SD I asked herif she thought it was ok. She told me there was nothing wrong with it and it was just pictures. I asked her if she'd send her dad those pictures. "Eww no he's my dad!" If they are "just pictures" why not show your dad your 'developments'.

Someone on here said they aren't raising a child, they're raising an adult that they'll have to send off in the world. I couldn'tagree more.

SO and BM2 are raising a teen mom with multiple baby daddies and a welfare dependant.

My SD15 does inappropriate stuff on her social media. I had to quit following her on Instagram two years ago to save my sanity because her parents did nothing to stop her and two years later its worse but its not my kid so not my problem. I was like you. I had the same fears. Lamb to slaughter but the parents have to act.

And my partner takes his daughters out on dates too. He took them out individually to fancy seafood restaurants and japaenese steakhouses and even bought SD15's adult woman girlfriend a $50 Valentine gift while he took me to the Clock once at 9 at night because he didn't want to wait for me to cook and I got nothing for Valentine's Day. I have a baby with my partner. And while some people on this site like to say that I did it on purpose to entrap him and get him to marry me, I shut him down when he talks about marriage after that behavior. I tell him I support myself financially and really he benefits from me financially and that I can and will leave at anytime if he doesn't straighten up. I'm not going to marry a man who is going to treat me so disrespectfully and that no one is trapped by dd7 months and that means me too!!!!!!

After that little talk, he now takes me on dates about once every two weeks.

And I tell him that we aren't going to raise DD7months how he and his ex wife raise (or don't raise) his 15 year old

Similar situation with my SD acting inappropriate on social media. Both parents knew. Nothing done. (She was posing in half nude selfies with her boobs hanging out and pretending like she was 21.

End result? Pregnant at 16. Two kids by two baby daddies by 20.