Wish I Could Tell BM Off About her Kid She Dumped on Us
For full-timers--does anyone else wish they could write an email or letter to BM every time the skid ruins your day??
I never do, but I WISH I COULD...I swear, almost every single day, SD12 says or does something to make life completely miserable/expensive/difficult/unbearable. SD is rude to me and disrespectful to DH. Every day. She never contributes even a simple kind conversation for a few minutes. Ever. She never helps around the house unless DH is on her ass the entire time. He has spent countless hours trying to teach her how to clean the simplest of things. Yet, if he gives her the opportunity to help without supervision, she will always cut corners and do a lousy job. We've tried to teach & raise her for over 7 years but she continues to always do the wrong things! Over the years, she has caused us so much marital strife and has made me feel like a stranger in my own home.
It's getting to the point that I fantasize about writing BM a letter every time SD screws up my house and my peace & sanity. How I wish I could say, "Listen BM, that it so fkd that you decided to take the easy route and leave SD12 for your ex and a complete stranger (ME) to raise! I would never let my daughter be raised by a woman I do not know. I would never place that kind of trust in a complete stranger, and I would never put 100% of burden on the father....." On and on, I could go.... So Upset right now!!
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OMG!!!!!!! I have written SO
OMG!!!!!!!
I have written SO MANY LETTERS in my mind to the BM that left me her kid to raise! And provide for since she gives ZERO CS!
She gets the joy of talking with her daughter in the phone twice a week and being a Disney mom - and I have to do all the work and parenting. FUUCCKKKK!!!!
And you know when SD is older - the mom will be her rock star and I will just be the shit SM that told her what to do all these years. sigh
Yep--I know when SD is older,
Yep--I know when SD is older, in her mind, I will NOT be the one who helped & raised her! I hate how bio-parents can suddenly come along once the kids are adults and decide to take all the credit for what they become. But the adults who actually sacrificed their daily lives teaching and training them for life---well, the skid thinks they are the assholes.
Yup yup yup. Sometimes I
Yup yup yup.
Sometimes I think "what is the point of me helping and sacrificing?"
I do this often. I haven't
I do this often. I haven't had to do one lately BC BM fell off of the face of the earth again.
Not usually about the skids but about BMs drama .. You have the right to call your kids. You DO NOT have the right to text me everyday. WE are not friends. Thanks Much PSycho!!!
Lol. I type it out in word and delete.
I was going to comment on
I was going to comment on Sueu's response before it disappeared.
FMSL, you are in no way responsible for SD so don't let Sueu let you think for a moment that you're a fault in anyway.
I wish I could send a letter
I wish I could send a letter to BM to tell her what a miserable POS she is. I hate the fact that she gets to run around everyday and do whatever she wants and I am saddled with her miserable, rude, angry, lying, manipulative Brat15. Unfortunately, she would probably be too drunk or high to read it....I hate you BM and its funny I've never even met you.....and its so tragic what you are doing to SD15 do you think she doesn't understand you live 2 miles down the road and could give a rats ass to see or be with her.