Wow, so last night shit got crazy with FDH's stepmom and Dad. The three of them have been talking on and off for the past 3 or 4 months. SDstb4 b-day is coming up and we are just doing a small dinner for her at the house. He invited his Grandma and Grandpa and his cousin. He didn't invite his parents because they haven't spoken in a couple months.

Sunday was his Granparents 62nd wedding anniversary. They put on a breakfast that was at 10:30am. Everyone was invited to go. I didn't go because DS1 has been teething, not sleeping good (naps or bedtime) and that was around his nap time. He had woken up that day at 5:30 5:45ish. So we stayed home. I out him down at 10 and he slept til about 1:30. THANK Goodness!!! Anyway his stepmom and dad were saying I didn't go deliberately. Which is not true. These people aren't even a blip on my radar. But they tend to think all this crap about me. Fast forward to last night:

FDH gets a text from BM that she forwarded, it's from his stepmom asking BM to see SD for her birthday. FDH is pissed about this, he feels that she had no right to go behind his back and ask BM to see SD. I just told him that she has every right to do whatever she wanted, whether you feel it best or not, and BM can respond in how she see's fit. He called BM to tell her that he doesn't really want her (BM) to get involved in this nonsense, but she can do what she wants.

We were both a little confused as to why Stepmom decided to ask BM for SD. They haven't asked to see either kid and he already told them, all they need to do is ask, but they don't.
FDH sent Stepmom a text asking if they were coming to SD's b-day dinner. She said "Why so we can feel uncomfortable? FTMandSM and DS1 weren't there on Sunday, it's not fair." (Not really sure what that means.) Long story short, they don't feel comfortable coming to our house, but was never going to tell us and just not show up.

Well...FDH had to drop SD off to BM and swing by his grandparents house to drop off the present he bought for his grandparents to give to SD. On the way his dad sent him this text word for word, I just copied and pasted it. It's hard to read. My notes are in ():

"You're a real piece work you're ungrateful shellfish (selfish) and only out for yourself. You and your whstever she is baby momma (this is me) are dead if catch you I'll give something To really be upset about. I'm not saying I'd beat you senseless I should have done that yrs ago you are a Mormon (moron, we aren't Mormons) at least you have found a mental midget(that would be me) to live your life with." I just copied and pasted it. It's hard to read. My notes are in ()..

I'm so done with these people. He has clearly threatened to kill myself and FDH. I need to protect my son and yes my SD from these types of people. I'm going to have to file on Order of protection. Do I need to go straight to the police station or speak to a lawyer? Any help and advice would be great as I want to do this today. Thank you for reading!!