My hospital stay ruins BM evening

Was in the hospital last night. I'm 25 weeks pregnant and my doctor wanted me to get fluids because I contracted a pretty nasty strain of the flu. BMs reaction:

"Tell your f-ung wife thanks for being dramatic and ruining my evening. I had dinner plans. Your kids should be more important to you than that."

Included was a barrage of other harassing texts. Sooooo wish DH never had to deal with her.

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his only response was "what

his only response was "what in the world is wrong with you?"

Tog, You are so right!

Tog,

You are so right! Control freaks can not stand being ignored. She might of missed out on getting laid. POOR THING!

Getting better, thanks. Still

Getting better, thanks. Still have a fever that is higher than what they would like for the baby, but at least I'm keeping fluids down now.

His unborn baby is his child

:jawdrop:

His unborn baby is his child too. It is every bit as important to him as his other kiddos are.

BM can always hire a babysitter if she wants to go out and your household must cancel. No one ruined her date but her being too cheap.

Take care of yourself and baby2b. BM will survive a missed dinner date.

I had this experience when in recovery from having LO., over BMs scheduled phone time. BM went as low as calling my newborn a mutt.
Another day and time for her call was mentioned but she just wanted to fight..she hadn't called the kids in about 3 weeks before that.

Some of these BMs I swear.

Thanks for the support guys.

Thanks for the support guys. I am feeling better today, but my fever is still higher than they would like. I am starting to keep liquids down though which is good.

I just think it's comical that the kids should be more important to DH than me and Our child, but they obviously are not more important than her dinner plans.

Some of the things that have been more important to BM than Her children since DH and I have been together:
Jumping in cold water
Her BF crying in her bedroom
Her crying in the bathroom after fight with her BF
Three weeklong trips to Vegas without her kids
A weeklong trip to Florida without her kids
The ice bucket challenge
The list goes on and on.....
These are all examples of the times DH has gotten the kids from her.

SAW ICE BUCKET CHALLENGE AND

SAW ICE BUCKET CHALLENGE AND HAD TO SHARE THIS PIC AGAIN..LOL BM DOING ICE BUCKET CHALLENGE }:)
http://s34.photobucket.com/user/missmaddies/media/THE_WIZARD_OF_OZ-553.j...

I hope you are doing okay!

I hope you are doing okay! Take care of yourself and your baby.

Our BM is the same way. She threw a fit because DH said he couldn't get SS on her day because he was at the hospital with me. My father was dying. She said she didn't care about my dad she was going to a concert to see her favorite band. I told DH to go get him. I didn't want her calling anymore. DH picked SS up 30 mins after the concert started.

Just wow. Thanks! In a

Just wow. Thanks!

In a nuclear family, your DH kids would have had to have been with a babysitter. Same in my circumstance. We thought it was better for them to be with their mother. Apparently not.

LOL yea she's a real piece of

LOL yea she's a real piece of something.

Silly TJH why would you think they should be with their mom?

You know if y'all would have gotten a sitter instead of taking them to her she would have thrown a fit. You're damned if you do, damned if you don't.

He should make it clear that

He should make it clear that his kid is more important then her or her dinner plans. That his kid with you will always be more important and if she doesn't like it then she can pound sand. Her kids are not more important then her diner plans.

Some of these bm's think that they and their needs are more important then that of their exes new wife. She will eventually learn that she is part of the past and her needs are as important to him as the checkout lady at the grocery store. The needs of his wife and all of his kids come before her. She can accept it or not accept it, it is her issue not yours.

That Bm is a fucking asshole.

That Bm is a fucking asshole. The sad thing is that most of these women we deal with are like this. Bm here had the nerve in the past to tell dh that ss should come first before dd and I. Dh set her ass straight right away and thankfully she hasn't said anything like that again. I don't know what these idiots are thinking...

I hope you feel better

I'm sure this BM that had

I'm sure this BM that had your DH out at all hours of the night for her if she had the sniffles while expecting. Hopefully her next date will give her herpes.

Hope you and baby are doing well!