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An open letter to my daugther's stepmom

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Submitted by stepmasochist on Tue, 12/16/2014 - 8:15am

Wow, I read from HuffPost
"Precious woman, you are a rare and beautiful gem." I'd say the BM that wrote this is even more rare.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/candice-curry/an-open-letter-to-my-daug_b_...

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Submitted by momandmore on Tue, 12/16/2014 - 8:20am

Yup.. and I saw it on FB the other day. The lady who wrote it and the SM are both real. They were both commenting on it and being very nice to each other. Very rare!

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Submitted by momandmore on Tue, 12/16/2014 - 8:23am

No.. I wasn't saying that. LOL. They were both commenting to each other, it was almost sickening.

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Tue, 12/16/2014 - 12:34pm

You really think the other woman has any right to participate in anything with bm???

I'm telling you, even if bm is a saint, the other woman doesn't stand a chance. Kids will have a lot of curiosity as to why daddy moved on/moved someone in so soon.

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Submitted by HadEnoughx5 on Tue, 12/16/2014 - 8:26am

I just saw it on Good Morning America. I have always said the BM sets the tone on how well the relationships between all will go. Lord knows I took the high road for years and BM insists in making the skids lives hell because I exist. Judges have told BM that I am not going anywhere and it is best for her to "forge" a relationship with me for the sake of the skids. Nope. It's all about her.

Imagine if more BM's were like this woman how different things would be for everyone.

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Submitted by StepLady on Wed, 12/17/2014 - 2:50am

All of these letters are stupid in my opinion. However on this site, I really dislike that BM who cheats are sluts and whores ruined their marriages with our DHs, and that when this letter came up the commentary about a DH who cheated with the new smom is kind of dismissive of all that. I was cheated on and it was horrible and heartbreaking. I moved on and life is great now, but it took a long time to work on getting over it. It is wrong weather a DH or BM does it. It is wrong all around.

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Submitted by stepmasochist on Thu, 12/18/2014 - 1:45pm

Sorry for posting something that had already been posted. I haven't had much time for ST in a loooooooong while.

I saw it from a friend's FB page. She's a BM and she posted it to the wall of her DS's SM. Their comments were an awesome gushfest of how much they love each other. I know their relationship is real ... so it is possible.