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I am so Fing Pissed Right Now

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Submitted by Ninji on Thu, 11/27/2014 - 5:51pm

Stupid Bitch BM drops Skids off for the third time in 5years but can't just drop them off and leave. Bitch has to come to the door. So I ask her what she wants and she says that Robbie (BF X stepson) wants to talk to BF. I get pissed an walk away. Turns out Robbie doesn't really want to talk to BF. BM wants money because BF's X SD is graduating high school and she wants him to help pay for pictures. XSD has been living with her boyfriend for over a year. BM doesn't need to be at MY door asking for money.

Of course she isn't talking about his real kids just wanting money. WHY does this bitch think she can come on my property. I told BF next time I'm going to get in her face. He doesn't get why I'm pissed.

Maybe I'm pissed because you tell me you can't afford to take me to a nice dinner on my B day next week even though you have had an entire year to save up. Maybe I'm pissed because you keep telling me you can't afford to buy me a ring, but you don't tell BM that you aren't paying for class pics for a kid that isn't yours.

I swear if he gives her a dollar towards those pics, I'm out of here. I've have a big promotion this summer that is guaranteed and I've been thinking about leaving then anyway. Fuck you. I can buy my own ring (The one I want is only $900 anyways). I'll leave and you can be BM's puppet.

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Submitted by furkidsforme on Thu, 11/27/2014 - 6:16pm

actions speak louder than words, and if I were you I'd be pretty damned tired of what he keeps sayin'.

By the way- don't marry some dickhead that can't even bother to save up and do something nice for your birthday. That is not the kind of man you should be tying your star to.

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Submitted by leslie814 on Thu, 11/27/2014 - 8:04pm

Seriously where do these women get off?? It's the men who aren't putting them in their place I've dealt with it. I am constantly trying to teach my two step daughters women empowerment just for them to come back with some bs from their mother. It's sickening

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Thu, 11/27/2014 - 9:01pm

Bf needs to be meeting bm to do exchanges at a public, neutral location. If he won't agree to that, and doesn't change his other ways, you need to hightail it out of there.

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Submitted by Ninji on Fri, 11/28/2014 - 12:28pm

I spoke with BF about the incident after I wrote this blog and the SKids went to bed. I told him I have no problem with her coming up to the door if she wanted to talk about their two kids. NOT her kids from another man. SS got a D and F on his midterm report on Monday and stupid BM didn't even mention it. I was really just pissed because of the money thing. He promised me he wasn't giving her a dime and she didn't really ask for money. Ok, but she gave him proofs. In my mine that is her asking for money to purchase the actual photos, but he said she didn't. Time will tell.

We also talked about my B Day and we are going to celebrate our B-Days together because his is on the 26th of Dec. I wanted to do this in the first place. Thanks for letting me vent STalkers. Smile

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Submitted by TJH100911 on Sat, 11/29/2014 - 9:39am

The best thing I ever did for me and my relationship both was disengage from BM. It helped my relationship with my DH and it immensely improved my relationship with Skids. I wasn't resentful all the time because it was no longer my problem. If you don't want BM on your property your BF needs to meet her elsewhere. i don't see her or speak to her except at skid functions. Of course this works for me because my DH is wonderful. He respects boundaries that we create to make the situation more tolerable and HE deals with her and makes all the decisions on dealing with her. If your BF does not respect your boundaries or at least compromise with you on money issues and boundaries, I would suggest keeping your options open until you can decide if you want to put up with that.