Anyone with adult skids- are they a SP?

OSD21 is a SM.

I dont think her and her now DH were together very long before they moved out of state (maybe a year???).

So prior to them moving, I am not sure how much time she actually spent with her SDs. She has 2, they are probably 9 and 7????

They moved out of state about a year and half ago and per FB (bc she posts everything there) they have seen her skids twice when they have come back to our state.

From prior snooping on FB I did read where OSD and her DH had posted a couple of things about the BM- negative stuff about her not letting the skids go to their state to visit, etc.

OSD also refers to them as "My daughters".

"Here is a pic of my daughter X."

"Can't wait to go to X state and see my daughters."

Not really sure what kind of SM she is, since I haven't really been around her much and never with her skids.

Also its kind of hard to gage since she doesnt even live in the same state (8 hours away) as her skids, so she doesnt really have a lot of involvement with them.

Anyone else's have adult skids that are a SP?

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I think he maybe just turned

I think he maybe just turned 30??? So he is actually closer to me in age (33) then I am to DH (42) or he is to OSD. LOL

I think she is the "one

I think she is the "one upper" SM.

She probably thinks she is a better mom then the BM. The skids would be much better off with her and her DH... blah blah blah...

I do know at one time her DH was into drugs and wasn't living a good life... I think that has changed now...

I have thought about that....

I have thought about that.... But I think she is too dumb to know how to a message board works honestly.

Honestly I am a little

Honestly I am a little dissapointed that the skids seem nice to OSD. I was really hoping and praying that they would be little shits and she would have to deal with a crazy BM.

Even if she does deal with a crazy BM she will never see the irony in it, with her own mother.

My sincerest apologies! THANK

My sincerest apologies!

THANK YOU!!!!

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Rising- I would be able to

Rising- I would be able to afford that if my husband wasn't paying for BM's lifestyle. LOL

Who's own mom hasn't told

Who's own mom hasn't told their own kids, "I hope when you have kids, they will give you as much trouble as you gave me."

It's only right to tell SD, "I hope when you have kids, they will be stepkids."

HAha

I don't have any skids that are step parents, but my stepmother does
My parents and stepmother made this shit look easy, those bastards. Being all supportive and friendly to each other.
Of course, I was an adult when dad and SM got married. And I was nice to my SM. Called her to wish her a happy Mother's day before her own kids did. And my mum was nice to my dad and SM, and even my step-siblings. No personality disorders here.

Ha Ha same here! My mom was

Ha Ha same here!

My mom was remarried once and had 2 SDs. No major issues.

My Dad was married to SM1 and had 2 SDs. No major issues. He is married to SM2. Have 2 adopted daughters. No major issues.

Even in my hometown, I see on FB.. people getting along with their exes, exes' new GFs, kids are all playing together. Friends divorced parents are posing for pics together with their grand kids.

Must be something in the water.....

I am a SD, but wasn't one

I am a SD, but wasn't one until I was about 21. My step brother was horrible to my mom and my biobrother is still horrible to my stepdad. My brother is just an asshole entitled brat. He still lives at home with my mom at 31 with his 8yr old daughter. I'm sure my stepdad loves that. I am nice to my stepdad. I call him and text him. He even has the title "Papaw" to my BS.

I hope my SD doesn't become a step parent when she's older. BUT I wish BM was a stepmom who had to deal with a super crazy BM, like the ones on here. NOW that would be awesome!