SD23 Reminiscing about bad parenting on FB
History - SD23 was allowed to move out of Sasquatch's house at the age of 14, in with her BF and his parents. She also quit school and while living with BF got pregnant at 17 had baby at 18. GS is 4 now.
Anytime H brings up this little story ^ he likes to place all the blame on Sasquatch for allowing this to happen (he and sasquatch were divorced) I like to remind him that HE did have a choice and he could have done a number of things to stop SD from leaving such as: call the police, call the truant officer, call DFS, and/or call juvenile authorities on a run-away. He insists he couldn't?
Anyway...He is very critical of my parenting always claiming that my kids gets away with everything, etc.etc. He says I need to be harder on my kids, like he was with his.
Onto the story - SD23 and I are FB friends and she has posted this today:
That awkward moment when you had to sit down and tell your parents that you're being sexually active with your bf/gf or else your bf/gf parents were going to inform them..... did anyone else have to do that? Or did that only happen to me and these stupid kids on the stupid shows I choose to watch....
Grandson's baby daddy replied: I remember that talk lol...... After sweating bullets for a week u finally go tell them and come to find out its not even a big deal!
:jawdrop: NOT A BIG DEAL at age 14 to be sleeping around? But my son needs to be put to death for bad grades? Wow! You really were hard on your kids DH :? IDIOT!
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Make sure he sees that
Make sure he sees that post...
Maddening isn't it? Skids can
Maddening isn't it?
Skids can smoke weed and it's no e of our business but a B minus is a hanging matter when it comes to BS
All the kids otice this crap and resent it.
My BIos( one mine one ours)will very likely write him off when they're up and out.
If he doesn't change his ways he will be a lonely hateful old man
Maddening is a good word for
Maddening is a good word for it...
I think he wants me to discipline my son like he wishes he could/could have discipline his kids. And a friend of mine said she thinks he is jealous of my kids because they aren't a drain on society - which is a good assumption.
Oh yes, YE OLDE DOUBLE
Oh yes, YE OLDE DOUBLE STANDARD once again.
Not just a double standard
Not just a double standard but also total denial or lying...He IS NOT and was never hard on his kids. SD17 is intolerable - she is a rude brat, and so spoiled and entitled it's sickening. That to me reflects BAD parenting. Plus I've seen him 1000x pussy foot around with those girls <<<<----also very sickening :sick:
Believe me I get that too. I
Believe me I get that too. I almost spit out my coffee when Chef says:
"My kids don't come over because I was putting my foot up their asses!"
:jawdrop:
What parallel universe were YOU in?? Chef never put anything on his kids asses except his LIPS!!
Then when he is angry at me for some imaginary transgression, he blames ME for his not seeing his kids! "You treated my kids like PIGS!" Yep, those thousands of dollars in gifts, ATVs, you name it that came from MY salary--stuff my own bios never had. Stuff CHEF couldn't afford because almost all his wages goes to CS. Yep pigs. Well I must say, if the shoe fits, wear it. Because his kids truly are peccaries of the worst sort.
I'm not surprised. He gets
I'm not surprised. He gets hammered every.single.night
DH used to take 15 y/o SD to
DH used to take 15 y/o SD to visit boyfriend all day with no parental supervision.
I objected very strenuously and he absolutely didn't want to hear it.
It was then that I pretty much decided not my monkey not my circus and disengaged by dgrees before even knowing what I was doing.
My kids are nowhere near what she was but he told me I need to take parenting classes?
I don't think so!
He has no problem parenting the bios or even me!
I thonk he just wanted her here so he wouldn't have to pay child support
The scary thing is he really was a better parent than BM was at the time.
In spite of it all, SD is doing okay. She's successful married and a homeowner now.
She still hates me but I just don't care anymore.
That is why I stopped talking
That is why I stopped talking to DH about His Royal Pains. Nothing will ever get done until I blew up That One Time and everything came out. We have different standards on parenting, world view, I prefer my kids to NOT be a burden to society EVER, while the skids are the opposite. Ah well, but then again, I am a dreamer... BTW- I was too nauseated to be FB friends with any of these Sasquatches and mini Sasquatches. I love my husband and accept the skids, but that's where I draw the line.