DH acting like an a$$ in front of YSD- really???
Just venting...
DH leaves this morning to go do 2 side jobs and then said something about taking YSD out to eat. This is how his visitation goes with her which is fine and dandy so I dont have to see her.
So I drop BS9 off with a friend for a scheduled play date. Run some errands. Come home eat a late lunch and doze off on the couch. I swear I am asleep for only 5 minutes.
All of a sudden DH comes busting in the door with YSD and a friend that he was suppose to do a side job with.
Right off the bat he is being all loud and obnoxious about me taking a nap, when I ask him what his plan is and what the plan is for dinner.
"Oh well I'm out working and you are laying around on the couch." Not only did it really piss me off but I am ALWAYS doing stuff around the house and I work FT, but he said it in front of YSD.
Then he made some comment about the new coffee pot I bought. Um the one you gave me money for, for my birthday and knew I was going to buy?
Really DH?
Not only did he wake me up from my nap, he comes in acting like an ass in front of YSD. Geez no wonder the skids dont like me... the way DH makes it sound, he doesn't even like me.
I did tell him to stop acting like an ass because he knew he would be kissing my ass later.
Then they left and YSD SLAMMED the back door!
OMG I am so fuming and so freakin annoyed I could scream.
We just came back from a camping trip and had been having a really nice weekend and then he has to turn into an ass because his daughter is around?
Why in the world would he do that and what does that accomplish?
Just venting because right now I feel like throwing all of his clothes out in the lawn.....
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I'd make sure he came home to
I'd make sure he came home to an empty dark house every night until he apologized for being an asshat.
I hate that every time his
I hate that every time his kids are around he acts like such an ass to me. Well really its when the girl skids are around. He is fine when it's SS.
Thankfully its been awhile since the skids have been around, so I kind of forgot that he acts like that, so it just totally caught me off guard and I was half asleep!
It bothers me so much more too because I cant stand his kids. Last thing I want is for them to go back and say to BM or to each other "oh daddy was being so mean to Zero. ha ha" Not that I care what BM or the other skids think.. but it's still annoying.
I completely understand. It's
I completely understand. It's about respect, or in this case lack thereof. He has no right to speak to you that way regardless of who was there.
The other option is to deliberately make food you know he doesn't like especially if it doesn't sit well with his stomach. I do that with DH sometimes when he pisses me off. I'll make something really spicy that I know he can't eat but he'll choke it down anyway and be miserable.
Yeah and he is only talking
Yeah and he is only talking to me like that because YSD was here! Makes no sense... grrrrr... and when I try to talk to him about it (like I have before when this same situation has occurred) he will act like I am crazy and just being dramatic.
Oh he def. is going to see a different side of me today... and moving forward until he kisses my ass over this....
My dh did this once..started
My dh did this once..started yelling at me in front of sd16. After he made a damn fool of himself I simply turned to her and said 'never let a man talk to you like that. Ever.' The look on his face was priceless and he never did it again.
Later when DH came home- I
Later when DH came home- I said to him- is that how you want your daughter to think a man talks to his wife?
I also explained to him, that if he is being disrespectful to me, his kids aren't going to be respectful to me.
He just doesnt get it and wont ever get it. He doesnt understand the dynamic between me and his kids. He thinks everything is a-okay because that is what he wants to think and believe.
I pondered on this a bit though and realized he does this a lot when the girl skids are around.
I dont think he does it to be intentionally mean.
I almost wonder if he does it because he knows the skids and I dont like each other. So its almost like if he isn't super loving to me, he is showing the kids "Hey I'm not taking Zero's side". Like if he is nice to me, he's hurting his kids or something???? :?
I don't know... but we haven't really talked in the past 2 days. (because that solves issues- not talking)
I'm just fed up with this black cloud hanging over our marriage.
Black cloud= skid situation