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And so it begins...

katielee's picture

I knew when I wrote the books on Mini-Wife Syndrome I would get a lot of criticism. That just goes along with the turf. I am getting comments like, "Everyone would be better off if you just got a divorce..." or "You should have married someone without kids..."

#1... yeah, I might agree.

#2... I have a damn thick skin and an overactive middle finger that comes from years of writing controversial books in another genre.

#3... Bad publicity is good for sales Smile

#4... I have a delete button and I know how to use it.

So fire away, bitter BM's. I'm ready for you }:)

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IslandGal's picture

Hah! Let all the haters vent their crap and spew their venom all they want - until they've walked a day in our shoes, they can't say shit!!

We know 99% of them will be BM's who just can't handle the truth!

I am saving up for a kindle - as soon as I get one, your book will be one of the first one's I buy!!

Know that you've got a whole of of supporters on here, who live the nightmare of the mini-wife and we are 100% behind you!!!

oncechoosetosmile's picture

visit Katies fb page and say something positive....she got a few nasty comments there.

oncechoosetosmile's picture

Katie, you are such a brave girl!!!! I just went on your facebook and LIKED it and left a few comments, too.Big time congrats for speaking out!! I left my ex because of his mini wife daughter ...and yay, am much happier now.She got what she wanted - Dadddddddaaaaaaaaa just for herself.I wish them good luck for their future together !The whole experience has really astonished me and I am so glad someone finally writes a book about it!

katielee's picture

Thank you all soooo much!!! <3<3<3

You all don't know how much I needed this support after visiting my Facebook page. And xoxo mwah to you all who posted something positive!

And like I said, the shit storm is actually a good thing:) That doesn't make life easy but it does sell books.

I appreciate all of you so much. Don't know what I would do without StepTalk.

SecondPlace007's picture

Hey from my perspective so far your spot on and so are the woman here. I'm a Bio Mom of 3 well adjusted kids 2 grown
My mom died when I was 14 & left me 2 siblings age 10 & 2 year old plus Dad to take care of
Dad fell in love with my SM when I was 15 and it was obvious who the WOMAN in his life was
I'm twice divorced & get along well enough to BBQ together with oldest sons stepmom & ex after our son graduated college because we respected each other and had what you call BOUNDARYS
My last ex was not real good to my kids part of the reason I left
My daughter 20 & I have always had a close relationship and I raised her to be a drama free female
I'm a mom to quite a few of my kids friends & voted most likely to foster them
Yea I had it hard, my kids had it hard
Boo Fu$ing Hoo
I'm a mature, compassionate, loving mother & woman
And I'm being accused by the man that I truelly believe to be my soul mate & want to live the rest of my life with as being
Mean, irritable, not nice to his daughter, negative negative negative (his words)
And quite frankly I'm beginning to feel & act it
I started taking an antidepressant to deal with anxiety
I feel tired & hopeless and can't believe he doesn't see it or care to even talk about it which makes me so pissed!!
I'm starting to not love him & hate the sound of her voice
My mans Alpha to the core exept where Princess is concerned
I'm starting to lose it for him
I feel cold & Bitchy
This isn't me so
SCREW THE CRITICISM
You and the woman here have the BALLS to say what were not supposed to say and certainly not supposed to feel if we're Good Woman
And I thank you for that
BTW I've never felt passionate enough to join a board much less post on one

lostbroken's picture

Wow Katielee, this is fantastic. Keep up all the hard work. I simply love reading your blogs, and I think you are so brave for speaking nothing less than the truth! Screw all the haters that say negative things about anything you write or do. You are free to speaking your mind. You have such great strength and Bravery. Thank you kindly for all your support you have given me. Many Hugs, and much success to you. Stay strong and positive always! Smile